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Let's Do The Time Warp ... Again?

Posted by Adrienne Martini

Yes, yes. In the sisterhood, we all have to respect each other's choices. Got it. Still, something about the whole "stay-at-home" wife debate got my back up. Great, I thought, that you have made a choice to devote yourself to your husband's care -- but don't expect me to think that what you do is worthy of admiration. 

Just when I was moving past my grouch about that, I stumbled upon something that made my jaw drop. Literally. And, for the record, I am not a jaw-dropper.

Welcome to the world of Time Warp Wives, women whose sole purpose is to pretend that they live in a different era -- in this case, the 1950s, '40s and '30s -- while they take care of their men.

In addition to the cooking, cleaning and flower arranging, I suspect they also spend a lot of time in thrift stores. But that is only a hunch.

Here's one of the many money quotes:

"But I often wonder if [my husband's] colleagues aren't slightly jealous that he has a wife who devotes herself to his happiness. How many men these days can really say that?"

Read the story and give a shout if your jaw drops, too.  I'd like to know that I'm not the only one. I mean, I don't really begrudge these women their choice -- but I also really don't understand it.


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Comments

 

km said:

I love how the 1940s woman claims the 40s was more about friendliness, then goes on to say she won't be friends with anyone who doesn't live the forties lifestyle and hardly knows her neighbors.  A little irony with your after-work drink, dear?

August 11, 2008 12:01 PM
 

Larissa said:

Are you sure that wasn't an article in The Onion?  I don't understand either...

August 11, 2008 12:04 PM
 

Bethie said:

Wowza.  The picture of the 1950s wife made my stomach turn.  The thing they don't understand is that for most families, it was never like that, not even way back when.  And it's sad that someone can be so unhappy with their life that they live as this...character, devoted completely to another person's happiness.  If I did this, my husband would divorce me!  We're big believers in gender equality *shudder*.  

August 11, 2008 12:08 PM
 

leahsmom said:

Gee, the 1950s - before all that pesky integration stuff, right?  I call shenanigans on these folks - any wonder these ladies are all white? I bet there aren't any women of other ethnicities who want to go back half a century, no matter what the state of tolerance and understanding is today.

August 11, 2008 12:51 PM
 

renee said:

Here's what gets me (along with everything else): these women are British.  Who in their right mind would want to relive Britain in the 1940s?

August 11, 2008 12:59 PM
 

christa said:

I always roll my eyes when people refer to the "good old days": I mean, the '30s and '40s, really?  The Depression?  WWII?  Does the woman from the '40s ration out her food, as well?

August 11, 2008 1:02 PM
 

Mamallama said:

Three words from that article say it all:  fantasy, obsession and escape.

August 11, 2008 1:03 PM
 

Knitty said:

It seems strange to me that these women complain about how materialistic the modern world is, yet their own lifestyles require extensive collections of antiques, vintage clothing, etc.

August 11, 2008 1:15 PM
 

diera said:

Somehow I feel more comfortable with this if I imagine these relationships as kind of like dom/sub relationships.  Or like any other kind of roleplaying, maybe sort of like the SCA except in pencil skirts instead of armor.  Your kink is OK with me, lady, as long as it's making you happy, but don't pretend it's anything more than a kink.

August 11, 2008 2:22 PM
 

Combermere said:

Guys... its the Daily Mail. Those quotes are made up by the writers to sell papers.

August 11, 2008 8:00 PM

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