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How Old Is Old Enough?

Posted by Adrienne Martini

Being left home alone at such a tender age certainly did no harm to Macaulay Culkin, right? He learned valuable skills like self-reliance and personal grooming during his solo time -- and grew up to be an upstanding young man, yes?

I'm winking so hard here that I'm afraid I'll do some damage to my left eye.

If we can't depend on Hollywood to tell us how to parent, who can we trust? Turns out, the best way to figure out if your kid can be left unsupervised is to trust your gut

When I was a kid, I was about 10 when I morphed into a latchkey kid -- which, now that I have kids of my own, seems really young. Have times changed? Or is it just that my perspective has?


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Comments

 

Larissa said:

Don't most states have laws about how old a child needs to be to stay home unattended?  

August 20, 2008 2:01 PM
 

Courtney said:

According to the article, most states don't have minimum age legislation.  

I started staying home by myself when I was 9 or 10, and started babysitting for other people's kids at 11 or 12.  I think it really helped that I had grown up in the neighborhood and knew most of my neighbors.  This was before cell phones, so getting ahold of my parents wasn't always possible.  However, knowing that there were adults around that I could ask for help made things much more comfortable for everyone involved.

I was a pretty responsible kid, though.  I agree that it really depends on the situation.  I also like the idea of starting out slowly, with short trips to see how things go.

August 20, 2008 3:39 PM

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