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Motherhood? I've Got Other Things to Do

Times they are a’ changin’—at least when it comes to the fertility of American women aged 15 to 55. U.S. Census Bureau numbers reveal that record numbers of women are choosing not to have kids, and many women who do give birth are making non-traditional decisions about motherhood.

In 2006, 20 percent of women between the ages of 40 and 44 had no children, compared with 10 percent in the 1970s. And modern mothers in their early 40s have an average of 1.9 children, compared with 3.1 in 1976. Consistent throughout the years has been the fact that women whose education ended after high school are more likely to have kids than women with advanced degrees.

Of women who do have children, stay-at-home moms are in the minority. 60 percent of mothers work outside of the home, and 36 percent of women with children are single, while 5 percent have a live-in partner. (Keep in mind that no Census data recognizes same-sex marriage.)

"It used to be sort of expected that there was a phase of life where you had children, and a lot of women aren't doing that now," Jane Lawler Dye, the study’s researcher said of the findings. I would argue that there is certainly still strong social pressure to have children. Perhaps women who opt out of motherhood are no longer considered freaks of nature, but my childless friends in their early 30s can hardly go to the grocery store without getting grilled on when they're planning to have kids.

Photo: Working Mothers Forum 

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Comments

 

jenny said:

I think the trend is reversing, though. aren't we experiencing a baby boom? and many of my peers (late 20's) are saying they want 4 (or more!).

August 22, 2008 9:02 PM
 

Bethie said:

Don't worry, those women who pop out 10, 15 and 20 kids are making up for it.

August 23, 2008 1:01 AM
 

Lila said:

The more educated the woman (carrying significant student loan debt), the more likely she is to realize how much having a child costs (prenatal care, child care, buying the basics, etc.).  I know a lot of women who would love to have bigger families, but it's a financial luxury they can't afford.

August 23, 2008 7:33 AM
 

Emily said:

Not to mention that I know quite a few women who are discovering they they CAN'T have kids and are choosing to find fulfillment elsewhere.

And does this data include the "trend" of teenagers having children?

August 24, 2008 10:05 PM

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Hannah Tennant-Moore is a Brooklyn-based freelance writer whose work has appeared or is forthcoming in Best Buddhist Writing (2008); The Sun; Guantanamo: Inside the Prison, Outside the Law; Tricycle; Turning Wheel (as the winner of the Young Writers Award); and elsewhere.

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