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Kindergartners Vote An Autistic Classmate Out of the Class

Posted by JeanneSager

You know that warning, kids can be mean? So can teachers. A Port St. Lucie, Fla. teacher has been suspended without pay for allegedly bringing a five-year-old boy to stand in front of the class and letting his classmates vote him out of the class. And that's not even the worst part. The child in question? He has Asperger's, a form of autism. 

Yes reports say Wendy Portillo actually encouraged her students to pick on a kid with disabilities. Alex Barton had been sent to the principal's office twice that day for discipline problems before Portillo allegedly brought him to the front of the class and asked the students to tell him how his behavior had been affecting them. Then she let them vote. Fourteen said bye bye Alex. Two were on his side. 

Let's set aside the fact that this kid was in kindergarten and thus at an already immature state of development (he was five for crying out loud). Let's even set aside his Asperger's diagnosis. What kind of teacher disciplines her students by letting the other kids pick on him? I shrink in horror when a waiter gets his ass handed to him by the maitre d' at a restaurant in front of a dining room full of people, and we're talking about two grown adults. Discipline is the teacher's job and the teacher's job alone. While I don't expect an educator to walk out of the class with a child every time he acts up so they can have a private word, more than simple admonishments (sit down please, raise your hand before you speak, etc.) should be done off to the side of the room. Even with the rest of the kids in the room, it should be a teacher-to-student conversation without the "help" of the other kids. 

The socialization process requires kids learn what kind of affect their actions have on other kids; I'll grant you that. His autism certainly plays a role here. But even non-autistic kids have a me-centric focus on the world at five. So how do you teach them? Sit them down and talk about it. Give examples of some of the things other children have done that were hurtful. Make it personal - in a personal setting. Don't turn a child into a punching bag for his classmates. 

Portillo has been suspended without pay for one year by the school district. I hope she spends that year pursuing another career path.

Image: NYC Schools

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Comments

 

Meg said:

Perhaps I'm wrong but there's a big difference between "encouraged her students to pick on a kid with disabilities" and "asked the students to tell him how his behavior had been affecting them".  

Allowing the children to vote out another child is obviously wrong, but having his fellow classmates explain to him (in 5 year old language) how his acting out affects them seems just fine to me.  "When you act up, I can't hear the teacher" or "When you're acting up it takes time away from play time" kind of thing.  Action/reaction.

If this child with autism is going to be in main stream classes he needs to be able to act accordingly.  Otherwise he should be in classes for children with disabilities.

November 20, 2008 10:27 AM
 

mommashay said:

That is horrible and humiliating!  Even for a kid without disabilities that would be a nightmare!  Humiliation as a form of punishment is just plain cruel, not to mention counterproductive.  How many people do you know look back on humiliating experiences as a child and say that it helped them?  NONE!  It is those experiences that shape our insecurities as adults.  Even if she argued that she routinely used this tactic on ALL of her students, it's immature and shows a complete lack of judgment.  I would be outraged if a teacher did this to one of my children.  She should be fired for good!

November 20, 2008 11:21 AM
 

Amber said:

I think this kid clearly needs better classroom support.  This is probably another example of how poor funding and lack of resources for students with special needs is harmful.  There aren't always appropriate classes available, or properly trained staff.  The teacher and student shouldn't have been in that situation in the first place.

Having said that, what the teacher did was out of line.  You can't vote a kindergartner out of class.  And it's not teaching the other students how to handle conflict or treat others.  She ought to have been disciplined, and she was.

November 20, 2008 12:28 PM
 

Lucy said:

Nowadays, kids come to the classroom with so many issues yet teachers are not given the training or support to deal with these issues.  I have sympathy for the teacher if she was new because I am giving her the benefit of the doubt and thinking that the child might have been being disruptive and she had tried a lot of other strategies and they didn't work.  She even sent the child to the principal for support and it still didn't help.  To me, it sounds like she tried to have the students express to him how his actions affected them yet it got out of hand.  I think calling for her resignation might be premature because maybe she is a great teacher but made a bad judgement call that day.  

November 20, 2008 1:28 PM
 

Shaiathome said:

Well, voting him out of class should not be within the children's authority.  BUT, letting them clearly state how his disruptive behavior is a problem is probably a great idea.  Asperger's can be anywhere from VERY mild (hardly noticeable) to extreme (crippling).  If this child was mainstreamed, he needed to be acting appropriately in a classroom setting.  If the teacher was having ongoing problems with this child's behavior, then some sort of support should have been provided.  In my own experience, living in a university town, many of the young teachers are sent into the classroom without proper support from administrative staff (principals, deans, law enforcement) and the class as a whole suffers.  

November 20, 2008 2:21 PM
 

patricia said:

This is an old story- if you'll notice, the incident itself happened in May- and it was pretty hotly debated at the time here on Strollerderby:

www.babble.com/.../autistic-boy-voted-out-of-kindergarten-by-classmates.aspx

Not that I think it's not worthy of more debate; just wanted to point out to anyone for whom the story seemed familiar (as it did to me).

November 20, 2008 3:21 PM
 

EG said:

Didn't this happen a long time ago?  And didn't Babble already report this one?

November 20, 2008 4:21 PM
 

Manjari said:

This is like a rerun.

November 21, 2008 12:19 AM
 

JeanneSager said:

The reason this has been posted is because the last time it was discussed here on Babble the teacher had not been disciplined. This is an update, with new action and new information

November 21, 2008 12:35 AM

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