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Kids and Music: Where's Your Line?

Posted by Kelly Mills

fergaliciousI must have mentioned my very "Footloose" upbringing before: We weren't allowed to listen to the radio because our parents were worried about our exposure to sinnin' lyrics. The result was that my sister and I were glued to the radio whenever we went to a friend's house. And because of this, I probably err in the opposite direction, letting my kid listen to just about anything with an abandon I don't have when it comes to movies and television.

But even I paused when my seven-year-old child (incorrectly) sang some Fergalicious the other day. "I am easy, I am sleazy..." "It's 'ain't' easy!" I lamely cried.  

One of my favorite activities with my kid is to put on music and have a dance party in our living room. But now that I'm enamored with this song (don't ask me why) I start to think, "Maybe I don't want her co-listening to this one." And I've been hesitant to introduce other artists I love because, well, I don't really want her to learn the n-word right now.

Look, I could care less about straight profanity in songs, and I seriously doubt she gets most of the sexy stuff or the drug references. At least I didn't when I was her age, and I'd rather have her discuss it with me than absorb this stuff at a friend's house. But you know, even though I'm clearly free and easy (but I ain't sleazy) I do have some limits.

Where do you draw the line? How do you---or do you---censor popular songs, and at what age do you loosen up?  

Related:

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Five Movies You Shouldn't Watch While Pregnant 


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Comments

 

veggiemomma said:

I don't let my son listen to rap or pop or any of that new "music". I'm only 23 but I don't even listed to it and it's less about censorship of bad language and themes than it is censoring him from developing the kind of horrible musical taste that some people have who believe this stuff is even music to begin with! My son loves Queen, The Beatles, The Rolling Stones and any Funk music he can get his ears on :)

November 24, 2008 6:52 PM
 

MomofBeans said:

I let my daughter listen to hip-hop, rap, pop, rock...pretty much everything. Clearly, I'm not playing anything with profane or violent lyrics. I don't really enjoy those sorts of lyrics myself, so it's not in our circulation. I love all sorts of music from rap to country to classical piano and opera...and salsa music (which really gets her revved up). Music is art. It's beautiful!  And there is a difference in contecnt between. Tupac's "I Get Around" and "Keep Your Head Up."  I don't play the former for my daughter, but see nothing wrong with finding examples of hip-hop that are uplifting and interesting.  I'm sure that one day my daughter may develop "horrible musical taste," but that's part of the fun of being young. My parents didn't understand my love of Guns and Roses anymore than their parents understood their love of The Who. Different strokes for different folks!

November 25, 2008 9:48 AM
 

km said:

"co-listening"???  Are you kidding me?

November 25, 2008 12:49 PM

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