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Parents Sue School for Checking for Sex Offenders

Posted by JeanneSager

And the short-sighted parent of the year award goes to . . . two Texas parents who are suing their child's school because they're required to show their driver's license before being allowed access to a building full of children. The horrors, I know. 

Yvonne and Larry Meadows say their rights are being violated by a program that compares would-be school visitors' driver's licenses to a database of registered sex offenders.

Yvonne says she's been told she'll be denied entrance to Bee Cave Elementary School unless she hands over her license. That, she said, puts her private information at risk. Besides, the Meadows' told the Austin American-Statesman they are guaranteed the freedom to associate with their children at school. 

I'm kind of perplexed here. The school is a government agency, as is the department of motor vehicles - which provides the driver's license. Any information being picked up in the scans should already be in the system, which makes it hard to see how parents are suffering identity theft. Granted the school has contracted with a private company to do the checks, but several states contract with private companies to issue driver's licenses. 

The license, by the way, isn't a guaranteed right. It's a privilege - which can be revoked. As is the so-called "right" to visit a school. At my daughter's pre-school, no one is allowed entrance unless they are recognized as a parent of one of the students or show some ID and a clear reason for being present. Even my in-laws had to present the teacher with identification to pick up their granddaughter. Hers is a private pre-school, but I'd like to think a public school would have a similar policy.

Public schools are the places where we send our children during the day, expecting them to return to us in the same shape in which they left. We put our trust in them to keep our kids safe, and protection from pedophiles ranks high on that list. I would think the Meadowses would prefer a little hassle at the door to having their child touched by a kiddie rapist (not a threat, merely an awful, disgusting fact of life). In the post-Columbine era, most schools have locked all but one entrance and placed someone there to monitor ingress and egress anyway. They reserve the right to turn anyone away. As a reporter, I quickly learned to bring both my press pass and driver's license with me to the doorway lest I be sent back to my car and end up late to my interview. At times, my ID has been taken for me to claim on the way out - the school's way of ensuring people check in before they leave, so they can tell who is in the building and when. 

Is this any different? Would you feel violated if you were asked to provide ID or feel like your kids were a little safer?

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Comments

 

Kris said:

What idiots.

Our private daycare/preschool has a fingerprint scanner. No one gets in without scanning in.

December 2, 2008 2:27 PM
 

Knitty said:

Just typical modern US behavior... sue anyone you can for anything you can think of and hope it results in $$$.

December 2, 2008 2:30 PM
 

MailDeadDrop said:

Except that stranger molestation is exceedingly rare. Friend/family molestation is much more common (although still thankfully "uncommon"). So *if* the policy of showing ID is designed to prevent stranger molestation, it is yet another case of "security theater". You might just as well say that "showing ID is to prevent the children from being eaten by zombies", except that even today's American sheeple wouldn't put up with that crap.

December 2, 2008 2:34 PM
 

diera said:

You and the previous Strollerderby poster who was waxing indignant about playgrounds being limited to kids only should have a little talk.  :-)

If my child's school started demanding a driver's license before I could get in, I wouldn't feel violated, but I'm not sure I'd feel any safer either.  Of course most of us would prefer a hassle to having our kids touched by child rapists, but that's not exactly the choice.  The kids should be protected in school because they're supervised and the teachers know where *they* are, not because the school tracks the movement of every adult in the building.  (A sex offender registry check only tells you about pedophiles who have already been caught, so if you obsess about that kind of thing it's not that great a preventative measure.)  If the school is sending kids off to private rooms with strange adults, that's a problem, of course, but what school does that?

December 2, 2008 2:39 PM
 

Anony said:

Yes, but if an adult offender came into a child's classroom because they were a parent, that's not what I'd call "stranger molestation". That's "my friend Joey's dad" and most kids would look at that parent as something more than a stranger. I'd want to prevent that relationship from starting, if I were the school.

December 2, 2008 2:45 PM
 

maeby said:

@maildropdead

i rather take the extra precaution against child molesters AND child-eating-zombies thank you.

They ask for my ID at the gym after i show them my gym card for christs sake! Sure i'll show you my license in order to get my kid! I've got nothing to hide.

People nowadays will use ANYTHING to say their rights are being violated. Maybe these people need to pick up a newspaper and see what is going on with all the children around the globe. Maybe then they'll drop this petty BS and be glad someones looking out for the well-being of their children.

December 2, 2008 5:29 PM
 

Lucy said:

They do this at my school district.  They scan your id and you get a sticker to wear.  If a parent comes without id and is not recognizable to the staff, the secretary takes out their child's enrollment form and either calls the numbers on the form or ask the parent questions about their child that the parents should know.  Though the thing I would recommend is to be involved in your child's school by volunteering, being on PTA, being friendly and greeting the office workers, etc.  Then they will not need to card you.

December 2, 2008 9:08 PM

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