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Should Autistic Children Be Separated From Other Kids?

Posted by Brett Singer

Magi Klages, an 8 year old autistic girl, was kicked out of a Girl Scout troop because the other kids were afraid of her.The Disabled Politico blog raises an interesting question regarding Magi Klages, the 8-year-old girl who was kicked out of her Brownie troop after an incident that stems from her autism.

Basically, they wonder if having a separate "disabled kids' troop" is a good idea. "Regardless of the intention, the segregation of children with disabilities teaches all children the wrong message." I tend to agree. But a commenter on the site counters with the following: "Mainstreaming is a wonderful concept. The execution leaves a lot to be desired."

I remember a public service ad that aired many years ago starring Tony Danza (formerly of 'Taxi' and other roles). The tag line was the following: "How do you treat a person with a disability? Like a person!" In the ad, if I recall correctly, the disabilities were of the "in a wheelchair" rather than the "bites self" variety. I feel strongly that everyone deserves a chance to be in whatever situation they want to be in. Obviously it won't always work, and not just with autism. If I had wanted to join the track and field team in high school, that wouldn't have worked either, because I was a really slow runner and in less than stellar physical condition. (As opposed to the speedy Adonis I am now.) And another commenter on the site points out that Magi, "already was in an integrated troop, then her parents took her out of that one and put her in a segregated troop, then the segregated troop's leader kicked her out." Interesting point, that.

I admit to being not completely convinced that either solution is perfect. On the one hand, segregation is wrong, yes? Everyone should be given the same opportunities. On the other hand, what if a child really won't thrive in a particular environment? Is it fair to expect them to stick it out just because we think it's "the right thing to do"? And to slingshot back the other way, how long can you separate a kid from the mainstream before mainstreaming them becomes too great a challenge? What do you think? Is it better to keep "special needs" kids separate from everyone else? Or does that send the wrong message to everyone, special needs or no?

Source: disaboom.com

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Comments

 

karmamama said:

I think the answer is that there is no single answer. "Special needs" covers an enormous range of disabilities. Oftentimes, those special needs can be managed within a mainstream environment, with appropriate assistance - think of deaf kids, or ones with cerebral palsy, etc. But then again, sometimes putting a child where it's possible for him to succeed - and where other students aren't being distracted from learning - then a self-contained room seems to be the way to go - I'm thinking of severe behavioral problems, or students who are mentally handicapped but keep getting passed along from grade to grade because socially, they think he's enjoying it, when academically, he's not learning and is a disruption to the class.

It's just not possible to make one rule. Parents and educators should work together to make sure that their child is getting what she needs - which is an education, and the stigma should be set aside. In a perfect world, anyway.

December 5, 2008 4:52 PM
 

Sheri said:

It depends on the child, the parent (inclusion requires a lot more work on even the parent's part than sticking a child in a resource room), and the school district.  

Two of my children are on the spectrum and both have thrived in a regular classroom.  The kids have been great as well as the teachers.  

In fact, my older son's class was smaller (only 17 kids versus 25 in the other classes) along with an aide who would help the other kids once my son was doing what he was supposed to be doing.  Parents wanted their kids to be in my son's class.  But Matt wasn't a biter or didn't try to injure himself.

December 7, 2008 5:03 AM

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