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Six-Year Old Told to Walk Home Alone from School

Posted by Shannon LC Cate

Some confusion about pick-up policies in a Chicago suburban school sent a six-year old packing for home on her own.  Except she had never walked home before and had no idea where home was.  Instead she wandered around until a family friend recognized her.   In all, her frantic mother, Kandi Stone, was searching for her for over two hours.

Stone is so distraught (and says her daughter is still having nightmares about being lost) that she's taken her daughter out of school and put her in private tutoring in a teacher's home.

Meanwhile, school officials are apologetic and claim they have revised pick-up plans to avoid similar mistakes in the future.  It's hard to say how much to blame the school--scary but understandable mistake?  Or unforgivable breech of children's safety?


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Comments

 

Dewi said:

This is an unforgivable breech of children's safety.

All the blame is with the school and the child's teacher.

All schools have dismissal permission plans for such a young child. Inappropriate for that child to walk off school property alone. The teach should not have let this happen.  If a parent does give permission the school can help her find an older child to be a walk home alone friend. I did that when I was fifth and sixth grader I walked home some little kids.

As a parent I know that at dismissal young children are ushered to their school bus or discharged in a manner that the teacher knows who each of her children are dismissed to.

December 7, 2008 2:00 PM
 

Lori said:

Not all schools have dismissal permission plans for young kids.   Maybe they should.  

This is one of those situations that could have turned out really, really bad.   Tragic in fact.

I hope the school, and other schools that read this learn from the experience.  

December 7, 2008 2:49 PM
 

Knitty said:

I would have been in an apoplectic rage if this were my daughter.

December 7, 2008 4:20 PM
 

Lori said:

In re reading this post it occurs to me that it is time to give my kids the semi annual lecture of what to do if I am not there to pick them up.

December 7, 2008 9:35 PM
 

Manjari said:

I would say it's unforgivable. I hate to imagine what could have happened. The school is responsible for a safe dismissal.

December 8, 2008 7:20 AM
 

Sarah said:

There is no doubt the school is in the wrong on this one - they even admitted to it. I have mixed feelings on the walking to school issue though. I grew up in a decent neighborhood in the Midwest and walked to school with my best friend almost every day - we started doing this in the first grade.

I recently walked this route as an adult, and it's not a short trip (close to a mile each way I think). We walked the route with our parents before school started, knew of safe houses to go to if something were to happen, and loved every minute of our walks.

Even in the same neighborhood today, I bet parents would freak if they knew kids were walking to school from a mile away. I am about to have my first child, so I'm just thinking ahead to when we'll have to make this decision. Anyone faced with this decision today?

December 8, 2008 9:37 AM

About Shannon LC Cate

Shannon LC Cate, PhD is a lesbian housewife and work-from-home mother of two girls via domestic, open, transracial adoption. They are both under five and already too brilliant and beautiful for their own good. Shannon lives, writes and assembles tricycles in Chicago, Illinois.

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