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Bus Driver Spanks 6 Year Old For Not Sitting Down

Posted by JeanneSager

A six-year-old won't sit down on the bus. What do you do? If you're one Oregon bus driver, you spank his little tushie and put him back in his seat.

Or maybe (just thinking out loud here), you could put his seatbelt on and tell him to sit there . . . then write him up for disobeying and put it in the hands of administrators and his parents? Apparently, I wouldn't make much of a bus driver.

Parents of the kids on the bus have told the Eagle Point School District they'd like him removed - citing not only the spanking incident but the fact that he's an erratic driver, frequently accelerating and slamming on the brakes. The district told an Oregon newspaper it's already taken appropriate disciplinary action. Therefore: case closed. 

Wait, what? He gets to touch hand to tuchus and go about his merry way? This is not a spank or not to spank issue. Because that's something parents can argue about. This guy wasn't a parent. And as such, he doesn't get to use corporal punishment. 

Bus drivers don't have it easy; I'll grant you that. They're at the front of the bus, with their backs turned to a large group of kids. On the drive home, that back is facing a group of youngsters who want nothing more than to get out the energy that's been pent up all day while they sat in a classroom with hands a scribblin' and legs a wigglin'. Kids learn naughty things on the bus because there is little a driver can do when he's paying attention to traffic and seated at the far end from where a bunch of kids are talking about s-e-x.

But I'll give you the same argument here that I gave to giving teachers extravagant gifts to make up for the crappy pay: they chose this job. The degree of difficulty does not give them a bye on treating our children according to the laws of the land. They're hired to protect our kids, transport them home. Taking someone's six-year-old over your knee to teach them a lesson? That's assault people.

Image: 2News.TV

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Comments

 

Treydawgg said:

I agree with you. There's a better way, and this driver didn't choose an acceptable option!

December 11, 2008 2:33 PM
 

Joanie said:

Not sitting down on the bus?  I think that's pretty serious, actually.  I would way rather have my kid popped on the buns and in her seat than running around while the bus is moving.  Not that it's great to have bus drivers making discipline choices, but when it's a matter of safety, I'd default to the driver with appropriate disciplinary action later -- just what they did.  I certainly wouldn't think of spanking as 'assault' ...unless there were marks?  Really, I'd hate to think that my child could be in danger because someone was afraid that I'd sue the school later.

December 11, 2008 3:00 PM
 

Sheri said:

One of our kid's kindergarten friends was pulling the same behavior several days in a row. She got kicked off the bus for a week. She was allowed back, but now she has a "special seat" right behind the bus driver--no one is allowed to sit with her--and she is required to wear a seatbelt. If she pops it off without permission, she will be booted from the bus route for the rest of the year. This is the type of discipline I would expect if it were our daughter.

December 11, 2008 3:07 PM
 

Veronica said:

School buses don't HAVE seatbelts.

December 11, 2008 3:09 PM
 

JeanneSager said:

Actually, Veronica, a number of school buses DO have seatbelts. The bus I rode to school for most of my days in New York did - it's state law here as it is in a number of states. By 2011, the feds are requiring all smaller buses have seatbelts installed. But even in states where they aren't mandated, a number of parents report there are indeed belts in place - the issue for many of those parents is whether or not the kids use them.

December 11, 2008 3:31 PM
 

Mamallama said:

In our school district, only the small buses have seat belts.  

December 11, 2008 4:24 PM
 

Manjari said:

I would be livid if someone hit my kids, for any reason.

Our buses never had seat belts.

December 11, 2008 5:18 PM
 

Knitty said:

I bet this guy has a lot of simmering resentment towards the kids he buses around.  Of course, recalling what madhouses schoolbusses when when I was a kid, I can't say I entirely blame him.

December 11, 2008 6:34 PM
 

Twyla said:

I am the parent who started the petition. I am good friends with the foster parent of the spanked child. I would like to clear some things up for your readers. The bus driver is a female and the bus was not in motion. The young man was turned around in his seat talking to the students behind him while the bus was stopped at a school. There were other adults available to help her if needed. The students who were to get off at that school were still on the bus so the bus was not going to be moving soon. Also, the bus driver did not give him one swat to the tushy. She actually gave him 4-5 smacks on the thigh.

The school district has re-opened the case due to new information about the driving practices. Unfortunately, when the original investigation was conducted the administration was not informed of the numerous complaints of her hard braking, running off the road, and nearly hitting other cars.

Thanks for your support. We will continue to persue this matter until we are satisfied with the results.

December 11, 2008 11:17 PM
 

Knitty said:

Thanks for information, Twyla.  My bad for assuming it was a man... and for being shocked to hear that it was a female driver.  What you describe is horrifying; best of luck in getting a satisfactory conclusion to this.

December 12, 2008 12:18 AM
 

MomofBeans said:

If this happened to my kid I would be beyond livid. Unless my child pulls a gun on you, you shouldn't be putting your hands on her.

December 12, 2008 7:17 AM
 

JeanneSager said:

Thanks for the update Twyla - and my bad on the man/woman issue. I read "woman" in the original article, and yet my brain must have put "man" as I was writing. Apologies all around on that one.

December 12, 2008 10:22 AM
 

Tara said:

It's just not cool for anyone to hit kids, ever. Why is it okay to treat kids with less respect than a grown adult?

December 12, 2008 3:07 PM
 

jason said:

its wrong

my 3 year old got slammed by his bus driver and the small town i am from wont do anything. turn it around put kid against driver and you'd be picking up JR. from jail.

December 22, 2008 3:52 AM

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Jeanne Sager is a writer who lives in upstate New York with her husband, daughter, a dog and too many cats. She refuses to believe motherhood comes with pumpkin appliqued sweaters, and she';s not ready to apologize for having only one child. She writes about raising her kid in her own hometown and the mom stuff she's not embarrassed to own at her blog, Inside Out (http://jeannesager.blogspot.com), she's contributing editor of Grand Magazine, and she's a regular essayist here on Babble

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