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When Every Day is Bring Your Kid to Work Day

Posted by Jen Chaney

Forget maternity leave. Don't bother with daycare. Just bring your children to the office with you every day.

That's a reality for several parents described in this New York Times story, including the head of a Manhattan investment boutique who has equipped her daughter with a playroom just outside her office where the girl can spend the day (with a babysitter) while Mommy slaves away in the financial sector. And she's not the only one. Borshoff, a communications firm in Indianapolis, has a Bring Your Baby to Work program that allows their working parents to do the same thing. The catch: They only get paid 80 percent of their salaries if they enroll because company management has found that employees aren't 100 percent productive when their kids are present. (Well, duh.)

The story raises some obvious issues, such as the distractions such arrangements raise for moms, dads and their colleagues, as well as the potential toll they can take on one's work. But it doesn't ask a very important question: Is it good for kids to essentially be raised every day in an office environment? If the children are all in a separate playroom, the situation probably doesn't differ much from attending a daycare center. But if the kids are literally in their mom's or dad's office all day, I have to wonder whether that's a positive thing for them. I'm not saying it isn't. I'm just saying I'd like to know the answer to that question.

Jacqueline Grace, a publishing company executive, believes the answer is: yes, it's absolutely a positive thing. She tells the Times that having her daughter come to work every day since she was two-months-old (she's now five) has "taught her so much about who she is, who she can be, as well as some amazing office skills in the process."

I am all in favor of companies that take a flexible and creative approach to parenting, and applaud every single one mentioned in this story for doing just that. But even if we can manage to juggle the phone calls, meetings and deadlines with children in the office, we surely owe it to our sons and daughters to find out if that environment is truly what's best for their development.

Image: Fifth Avenue Digital Via The New York Times


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Comments

 

JeanneSager said:

I cut back to part-time when my daughter was born, but as a writer that still means a lot of "on the job" time for my daughter.

Honestly - as much as it pains me to say it - it's not always what's best for her. She has to get dragged around with me from interview to interview. And I don't have the kind of money that Grace has - I can't pay a babysitter. It puts added stress on both of us. I'd imagine that one-on-one with a babysitter would take a lot of that stress off of the child (just from experience).

Even baby-sitter-less, my daughter has had some incredible experiences on the road with me - that she wouldn't have any other way. And I get to spend time with her that my pre-pregnancy schedule wouldn't have allowed.

As for what this does to the employer; often times a happier employee is a more proficient employee.

January 5, 2009 10:45 AM
 

gpgirl said:

In the article, most of these programs are for babies that are under 6 months. The only cases where a child was taken to work longer than that (up to 5 years) was when the moms were the heads of their companies. (Who is going to tell them no?) One woman was able to give her daughter her own office, but I'm sure that would not have been feasible for all the employees.

I was also wondering, for the kids who come every day to work until the age of 5, why don't they just go to preschool, and then spend the rest of the day at work?

Anyway, as much as I hate to say this, I think this would be way too distracting to the other employees. Either you have to make sure your child is very quiet all day long (which would be so not fun for a kid), or everyone has to deal with the noise that a normal child would make.

Jeanne, I imagine in your situation you work from home and have to take your daughter to interviews. In this case, I'm thinking your daughter can still be herself at home with you. Taking a child to an office all day is a very different situation.

I am kind of feeling like these CEO moms are abusing their power at the office in bringing their children.

Don't get me wrong - I am all for better maternity leave, subsidzed day-care, on-site day-care. We lose way too many women in the workforce because of our antiquated maternity laws. But you do have to think of everyone in the office, along with the moms/dads.

January 5, 2009 12:27 PM

About Jen Chaney

Jen Chaney is the movies editor and a DVD columnist for washingtonpost.com. Her byline has appeared in The Washington Post, People magazine, USA Today and the Utne Reader as well as various other newspapers around the country. She is the mother of a one-year-old boy, who has not yet learned the word Xanadu. But he will. Trust us, he will.

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