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Study Finds Girls "Prefer Chatting" to Being Physically Active

New research has found that women of all ages are less active than men. Observing schoolchildren at play, researchers have concluded that girls would rather socialize than play sports.

While I don't doubt the study’s findings that men are more physically active than women, I have some reservations about the explanation that girls simply like to sit around chatting, while boys like to run around and get dirty.

Until I graduated high school, I considered myself the least athletic person I knew. It was a big joke among my friends that any activity requiring physical exertion was off bounds for me. But once I realized that being active did not have to mean doing Indian sprints at Varsity field hockey practice, I became very athletic. I now bike everywhere, do yoga, dance, hike, surf, and run.

I certainly didn’t shun sports because I “prefer to chat.” But a casual observer could easily have drawn this conclusion from watching me on the sidelines during gym class, laughing with a girlfriend instead of trying to get in on the athletic action. The truth is, I was too intimidated to participate in traditional team sports, since I seem to have inherited a gene which makes me physically incapable of throwing and catching a ball. Even the sports that I did enjoy—gymnastics and track—were unappealing to me because I had no interest in competing. I just wanted to move around and have fun.

Perhaps it’s not girls’ natural inclinations that make them less active than their male counterparts, but rather the way sports are taught in school.

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Comments

 

dreambeliever200 said:

I will agree with you. I love being active, but I hate being competitive and, sadly, I think that 98% of sports in gym and pe are all competitive

January 8, 2009 3:32 AM
 

BlackOrchid said:

I completely agree! And even at my daughter's all-girls' school the PE and recess are completely focused on competitive sport -- leaving the girls who just aren't into that to sit and read and talk while soccer balls fly by their heads.

I always regret that I only found yoga as an adult - as a nervous, uncoordinated kid it would have been extremely helpful to me physically AND mentally.

January 8, 2009 10:36 AM
 

Twintown said:

Another person in complete agreement here!  I don't have a competitive bone in my body, which makes me a horrible person to have on your team.  Plus, I was (and still am) super-uncoordinated.  So during school, I always dreaded being on a team as much as the other kids learned to dread being stuck on a team with me.  Winning/losing just doesn't motivate me one bit, but that's not because I prefer "chatting".  

It drives my husband crazy when I ask him why he cares about whether or not his football team wins.  It's because he knows he doesn't have a real answer ;)    

January 8, 2009 10:57 AM
 

Bunny said:

Totally agreed! Gym class took all the joy out of physical activity for me throughout my childhood and teen years, but as an adult I've discovered the joys of running. There's gotta be a better way to get kids active than making them compete against each other - some kids just aren't cut out for it, and some kids use it as an excuse to be horrible to each other.

January 8, 2009 6:20 PM
 

Voice of Reason said:

Wow - I feel as though I've found my soulmates in the few people who have posted responses.

We live in a society where adult obesity is on the rise (among other related physical and mental problems) and we keep asking ourselves 'why?'. I would submit that one of the reasons is that the Physical Education system has a golden opportunity to expose children/teens to a wide variety of ways to live a physically active life and, instead, they focus almost exclusively on the competitive aspects of sports. The tragic part is that the athletically gifted kids have plenty of opportunities outside of PE classes to develop those skills and the kids who might otherwise excel at yoga, pilates, judo, etc., are left behind. The result is that less athletic kids (whom I would argue are the majority) are systematically made to feel excluded from partipating.

I was one of those kids, and for me it felt worse because I had an athletically gifted older brother and younger sister so PE teachers' expectations were dashed.

This is a really personal issue for me so thanks for the post!

January 10, 2009 2:15 PM

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Hannah Tennant-Moore is a Brooklyn-based freelance writer whose work has appeared or is forthcoming in Best Buddhist Writing (2008); The Sun; Guantanamo: Inside the Prison, Outside the Law; Tricycle; Turning Wheel (as the winner of the Young Writers Award); and elsewhere.

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