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Is It Ever Too Late for the Thank You Note?

Posted by JeanneSager

We do a lot as a family around this house. But the thank you notes? Somehow they landed in my court - for all three of us. 

This year, I've rebelled. Instead of writing out sweet, thoughtful notes pretending to be my daughter and allowing her to make a scribbly mark at the bottom to signify they are from her, I've told her she has to draw pictures. 

For everyone. 

That's grandparents on both sides, her uncle, my aunts, friends from my work, friends from my husband's work, her teacher, the teacher's assistant . . . the amount of people who buy "just for the kids" means the pile of thank yous "from the kid" is still high. And we're not done.

It would be faster to sit down and write them myself, I know that. I could bang it all out one evening during Toot and Puddle. But it's high time that she learn there's a little more involved than just shouting "thank you" and rushing back to play with her toys. I'd also like to think that people will appreciate something from her that much more, and they'll be so impressed that they won't mind the wait. Will they?

It hasn't been a full month since Christmas, so we have, what, a week left? Two? Until Easter? 

We're moving along at pre-schooler pace on the pile of pictures, but we'll get there. I'm just happy to report the birthday presents won't start rolling in until June. 

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Comments

 

Laura said:

Good for you. I should do this with my son before too long. You could always include a little note on the bottom to explain why someone is getting an Xmas thank-you in April: "Daughter's attention span is only so long, you know!"

January 16, 2009 8:11 AM
 

Brett Singer said:

I agree, although the picture thing is pretty tough. More power to you but all we can get is a (very) brief note. I don't think its too late at all. These kids today, they need to appreciate what they have. When I was young, we had to walk 75 miles in the snow, uphill both ways, just to get a stick to play with. And we liked it!

January 16, 2009 9:39 AM
 

JeanneSager said:

And if the bus DID pick us up, we had to get out and help the driver put chains on the wheels, plus we had to push when it got stuck . . .all the way to school, uphill!

January 16, 2009 12:45 PM
 

feefifoto said:

Good for you.  Even when my kids were a year old I had them create their own notes.  I'd give them a pen and let them scribble on note paper.  Boy, that was quick!  Later, I bought rubber stamps with their names on them and let them decorate note cards with their names and other pictures.  When they were old enough to print their names, I added that to the mix.  They need to know that writing thank you notes is their job, not mine.

January 17, 2009 12:44 AM

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Jeanne Sager is a writer who lives in upstate New York with her husband, daughter, a dog and too many cats. She refuses to believe motherhood comes with pumpkin appliqued sweaters, and she';s not ready to apologize for having only one child. She writes about raising her kid in her own hometown and the mom stuff she's not embarrassed to own at her blog, Inside Out (http://jeannesager.blogspot.com), she's contributing editor of Grand Magazine, and she's a regular essayist here on Babble

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