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Bush Twins to Obama Girls: Remember Who Your Dad Really Is

Posted by KeriF

I'm no fan of former (yay!) President Bush, and as much as the "liberal media" might agree with me, it's important to remember that Bush is someone's daddy.

That's what this letter from Jenna and Barbara Bush to Sasha and Malia Obama reminded me. That every time someone hurls an insult at Bush or calls him names, his daughters are right there reading it in the newspaper or watching it on TV. (I'd wager that the Bush twins gave up on The Daily Show a long time ago.)

Of course, you could argue that if Bush weren't such a… well, whatever you think of him, this wouldn't be a problem. When you become president, you give up a certain amount of privacy (okay, you give up all privacy). And you give up a certain amount of your kids' privacy as well. And you open yourself up to criticism from, well, from everyone in the world.

But it sounds like the kids get a lot in return. Here's an excerpt from the Bush twins' letter to the Obama girls about their experiences in the White House, both as granddaughters of the first President Bush and as daughters of the second; the full text can be found here.

When we played house, we sat behind the East sitting room's massive curtains as the light poured in illuminating her yellow walls. Our seven-year-old imaginations soared as we played in the enormous, beautiful rooms; our dreams, our games, as romantic as her surroundings. At night, the house sang us quiet songs through the chimneys as we fell asleep. In late December, when snow blanketed the front lawn, all of our cousins overtook the White House. Thirteen children between the ages of two and 12 ran throughout her halls, energized by the crispness in the air and the spirit of the season. Every room smelled of pine; the entire house was adorned with thistle; garlands wound around every banister. We sat on her grand staircase and spied on the holiday dancing below. Hours were spent playing hide-and-go-seek. We used a stage in the grand ballroom to produce a play about Santa and his reindeer. We watched as the National Christmas Tree was lit and admired the chef as he put the final icing on the gingerbread house.

But what really choked me up was their closing paragraph:

And finally, although it's an honor and full of so many extraordinary opportunities, it isn't always easy being a member of the club you are about to join. Our dad, like yours, is a man of great integrity and love; a man who always put us first. We still see him now as we did when we were seven: as our loving daddy. Our Dad, who read to us nightly, taught us how to score tedious baseball games. He is our father, not the sketch in a paper or part of a skit on TV. Many people will think they know him, but they have no idea how he felt the day you were born, the pride he felt on your first day of school, or how much you both love being his daughters. So here is our most important piece of advice: remember who your dad really is.

George W. Bush may not have been the best president, but to two girls, he's the best dad.


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Comments

 

Mamallama said:

I have to say that the picture above is awfully sweet.  Bush made it so easy for us to forget about his human side.  Kudos to the girls for their maturity (it took a while!).

January 22, 2009 2:40 PM
 

Amanda B. said:

Nice back-handed compliments. For the record, Mamallama, I'm pretty sure the only "immature" thing the twins did was get caught with margaritas when they were freshman in college. Stupid, yes, but hardly that big of a deal. If you had followed what they have done since then, you would know that they have been admirable, accomplished young women for a very long time.

And while I don't agree with some of the things he did as president, George W. Bush did succeed at his most important task after 9/11 - he kept us safe. Who among you would have thought that we wouldn't have been attacked again?

January 22, 2009 3:10 PM
 

Sue said:

Growing up with such a spotlight on you has got to be extremely difficult. I think  the Bush twins have done well, as has Chelsea Clinton. However, I think the public has a natural distaste for the press feeding on minor children, however famous or interesting they may be.

January 22, 2009 3:22 PM
 

pqbon said:

I think the letter was part of his project to remake his image. I also don't really think this was anything about the incoming kids. This was about trying to personify a man who and a family who has been run through the mud. In the past 8 years the public opinion of the whole family has gone down.

One thing to never forget about Bush as a father - he asked his family if he should run for president - his daughters asked him not to run. He decided to run anyway. He put his ambition ahead of the of his family.

January 22, 2009 3:42 PM
 

Brett Singer said:

I like that photo too. Reminds me of every pic I've ever seen of new fathers holding their babies.

January 22, 2009 3:50 PM
 

Sheri said:

I have never had the pleasure of meeting former President Bush, but my husband worked with a man whose son was on his secret service detail.  

My oldest son had to write a letter to President Clinton in second grade.  It was sent in an envelope with every other kid in his second grade class.  Every child asked for an autograph, and every child in his class got one.  Except for Matt.  My son got a "the president is a very busy man and can't honor your request at this time."  I saw their letters, my son's looked just like the next kids....every other kid in his class....Where is this going???

We gave a letter to my husband's co-worker who assured us President Bush would get it.  Matt wrote him telling him how much he admired him and how he really thought Mrs. Bush was a nice lady.  He also told him that he has two little brothers and he hoped that President Bush would continue to keep our country safe. Less than two weeks later we got a package--from the White House.  We received an entire case of M&Ms in little boxes with the White House seal on them, an autographed picture for each boy and a letter from Laura Bush.  We were also put on their Christmas card list (I know it probably isn't much to you all, but it meant a lot to us).  

So, please, tell me this man isn't a man.  He made my son's day.  And while I also don't agree with everything he has done, I'm willing to bet President Obama is going to make some mistakes too.  Hindsight is always 20/20.

I have a great deal of respect for any man who runs for, wins and holds the office of the president.  Even if he was too busy to send my son an autographed picture.  I just like him a little bit more if he does.

January 22, 2009 4:29 PM
 

maeby said:

= /  thats a pretty sweet pic there

January 23, 2009 10:01 AM
 

Yvonne said:

I think that letter was very sweet, and offered great advice to two young girls who will hear a lot of negative things about their parents over the next four (maybe eight!) years, true or not.

January 23, 2009 11:02 AM
 

Melodie said:

What a victory this country has seen in the election of a man of color!!!  Although I did not vote for Obama, as I am a very conservative believer, I am so happy to see this day come!

As far as the beautiful message from the Bush daughters, what a gracious way to welcome these two precious little girls into the White House & a life full of ups & downs!  

As a fellow Christian, I truly believe President Bush sought God's wisdom & did his very best to try & make the best decisions (even if some may not have been great!).  How many of us have regretted decisions we've made after they were made, but felt we did the very best we could do at the time?  Some may say, "But he was the President!"  My response is, "He was human first!"  And that's what his daughters have seen through his presidency & should see long afterwards!!  A love so strong - so unconditional that we all long for!  From his first moments in office till his last, there was little "joy in the journey".  I pray he will find that joy again with his family in the years to come!

January 23, 2009 12:20 PM
 

Lula said:

The bulk of the letter is advice on which banisters to slide down, which sights to visit in DC, and how to make the most of the copious networking opportunities available to White House children. That last paragraph about remembering your Dad is nice and all, but it reads most like a sentimental afterthought to me.

I loathed the Bush administration and am glad to see it over. I now wish W., Laura, and all the other Bushes peace and quiet on the ranch, and hope I never have to hear his voice on the radio/TV ever again.

January 23, 2009 3:15 PM
 

brett said:

I like the letter and stumbled across your site when looking for it.  Thanks for the link, but I wish you and others who can't help but hate Bush were able to make a comment on a story of love without the pointless undertones of hate.  Your point is he's still someone's daddy, and in the same breath you still dog the guy?

January 23, 2009 5:57 PM
 

Caillou said:

That last paragraph is what got the lump in my throat to jump up as well.  Darn you, Bush Twins!  Just when I'd finally reduced your whole family to a caricature!  

January 28, 2009 4:46 PM

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