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Parents Say Hospital Took Son's Organs Without Consent

Posted by JeanneSager

A set of distraught parents say their son should have survived surgery after a snowboarding accident, but he was suffocated by healthcare workers so they could take his organs. 

Pretty heady charges, especially for a hospital - you know, the people who take an oath to "first do no harm." 

Although there isn't enough information out there to tell whether the hospital is actually guilty of suffocating Gregory Jacobs, the debate over whether the hospital had rights to move in and take his organs is the one parents need to focus on. Jacobs' parents say the hospital moved in to take his organs without their consent. The hospital won't comment on pending litigation.

Should we as parents have the final say? 

Parents are understandably devastated after the death of a child - and often in no positition to debate whether they want to turn their child's body over to a doctor with a knife. But after death, time is of the essence. Most organs must be harvested and used within six to seventy-two hours of death. Organs are needed from kids - for kids - because they're the right size for another child's body (think about it, you can't put a 50-year-old man's heart in the body of a sixteen-month-old - the chest is just too darn small), but a significant amount of kids still die because the pediatric population of organ donors is limited. 

Our kids are our kids. I can't imagine ANYTHING as bad as losing them, but if it's already happened, I'd like to think I'd have the bigger picture in mind. If I lost my child, I could still save someone else from that same pain.

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Comments

 

Lee said:

He was eighteen -- legally an adult -- at the time of his accident. If he had an organ donor card or was identified as an organ donor on his driver's license his parents would not have to give consent. Organ donor identification is legally binding under the Uniform Anatomical Gift Act. Whether he was killed for his organs is another issue entirely.

I am an organ donor and have let my family know my wishes personally and in writing as part of a notarized Health Care Proxy naming my husband as my agent. This document is frequently offered when you have your will drafted. Parents should definitely consider organ donation for their minor children and respect the wishes of their adult children who made the choice in life to donate.  

March 6, 2009 9:40 AM
 

Amanda B. said:

I think that if someone is over 18 and has expressed their wishes to be an organ donor, usually on their driver's license, then no one else should be able to stop that from happening. I should be able to decide what happens to my body, not my husband, my parents, or anyone else.

March 6, 2009 11:13 AM
 

Becky said:

I agree with the organ donor part, i am an organ donor. and i dont think that my parents, or husband, or what have you, should be able to decide to change that after i am gone. I dont see why anyone wouldnt want to be an organ donor. even in death you are saving someone else. what could be better than that?

But i think the issue is that the parents think they killed him because he was an organ donor. if the kid was already an organ donor and the doctors knew that and then somehow helped off him... That would be sick. Even if they thought he didnt have a good chance of living either way, they should have let him die naturaly, or let the parents decide. with all the technology today you just never know. and purposly killing one child to save another is disgusting.

March 6, 2009 7:33 PM
 

Angus said:

I have signed my donor card, and my husband has finally agreed to honor it.  Where we live, next of kin has final say regardless of what that card says.  He's starting to consider signing his as well.

I've also managed to get him to agree that should anything happen to our two (almost 3) boys, we would donate their organs as well.

I fail to see how another needless death would help my son come back.  

Friends nephew recently had a heart transplant at about 2 weeks old.  He's not doing very well, but at least he's got a fighting chance.

March 8, 2009 4:50 AM

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Jeanne Sager is a writer who lives in upstate New York with her husband, daughter, a dog and too many cats. She refuses to believe motherhood comes with pumpkin appliqued sweaters, and she';s not ready to apologize for having only one child. She writes about raising her kid in her own hometown and the mom stuff she's not embarrassed to own at her blog, Inside Out (http://jeannesager.blogspot.com), she's contributing editor of Grand Magazine, and she's a regular essayist here on Babble

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