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"I wanted to go with my mommy": Kids left in car for an hour while mom detained for parking ticket

Posted by Miriam Axel-Lute

How many of you have ever had an unpaid parking ticket? Been pulled over for a minor traffic infraction? Have non Native American ancestors? Don't answer—I don't care. But keep your answer in mind as you think about this story:

Hispanic rights advocates filming routine traffic stops in Maricopa County, Arizona, in January, captured on tape officers in ski masks who detained a woman for an hour while her young kids (4 and 6) were left alone in the car, unable to go to her. (Eventually a relative came to get them.) The girl reported the sheriff told her to be quiet.

The mother had been pulled over for having her lights off and was arrested for an unpaid parking ticket. Oh, and she was undocumented and later deported.

Where to start, right? If she'd been wanted for murder, or come out brandishing a gun, or some such, then, well, this might have been necessary. But how twisted can you get to think serving justice on a parking ticket is worth traumatizing a couple of innocent children?

I know the question of undocumented immigrants is a tinderbox, but even if you think being one is a crime so heinous and the flight risk so large that it had to be handled right then, couldn't you have let the mother and kids be together until someone came to get them? Or, as it is easy to suspect, has the dehumanization of immigrants made such basic decency farfetched?

The commenters on various news stories who wax eloquent passionate about how it's all the mother's fault for being an evil lawbreaker make me ill. When there are people like Josef Fritzl in the world? And I love the one about how the ski masks were necessary because those awful people were filming. Since when do traffic cops have the right to anonymity in doing their job? Annoying to be documented in this fashion for sure, but pairing the right to use force with a right to anonymity is a recipe for disaster. Shown here quite well.

I'm sure that this hits me harder as a parent than it would have before (bad blogger confession: I've read numerous news reports on this, but couldn't make myself watch the video itself), but I would like to think I still would have recognized it as an seriously perverted set of priorities. If you agree, MomsRising is trying to gather people to protest the sheriff's tactics, of which this is apparently not unrepresentative.

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Comments

 

mchaos said:

I find the detail of skimasks disturbing.  Police Officers are doing a public service job, and as such their face, names, and police ID # should be available to anyone they are interacting with (not their home numbers, SS#, home addresses or family's photos of course, but skimasks!?!).

March 10, 2009 7:11 PM
 

Angi said:

The whole thing sound fishy! WHY would police wear ski masks? If it was only a normal stop?

March 10, 2009 7:25 PM
 

carfree childhood said:

and even if she was brandishing a gun and wanted for murder, her children should not have been left alone.  The police should have called social services immediately and stayed with the children until a social worker got there.

March 10, 2009 8:02 PM
 

Manjari said:

Horrible!

March 10, 2009 8:20 PM
 

Twintown said:

Oh, the irony!  Isn't leaving kids alone in a car like this illegal......or is it only illegal when non-cops do it?  Who polices the policemen?

March 11, 2009 9:31 AM
 

Kris said:

Sheriff Joe Arpaio is known for this kind of heavy-handed nonsense. He likes the notoriety.

March 11, 2009 10:03 AM
 

Miriam Axel-Lute said:

Twintown: To be clear, I think it sounds like there was an officer nearby the car, so they weren't 100% technically alone . . . I just don't think that really makes a difference to a kid separated from their parent under such circumstances.

March 11, 2009 10:08 AM
 

leahsmom said:

Kris - you're quite right.

March 11, 2009 3:55 PM

About Miriam Axel-Lute

Miriam Axel-Lute is a freelance writer, editor, poet, and urban planning junkie. She lives, works, and gardens in Albany, NY, with her two partners and daughter.

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