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Cracking Down on Parents' "Help" with Homework

Posted by Shannon LC Cate

Some schools in the Chicago area are trying to crack down on parent "help" on big projects, like science fair displays.  Science fair judges say the problem has been becoming greater in recent years.  Competition for college is one theory.  But the upshot is that when parents help kids too much with projects, the kids often don't learn very much.  Instead, kids find it harder to complete smaller assignments, being unused to work and having not learned to self-regulate.

Another issue is that professional parents with jobs like engineer or doctor are able to "help" their kids to a much higher level than less educated, less privileged parents.  One colleague of mine here at Strollerderby wondered why parents with those kinds of jobs can't spend some time with their kids' classmates, sharing their expertise with those with less privilege at home.  They can't claim to not have the time, given the obvious time that goes into projects like the mechanical teddy bears and crude oil distillation projects mentioned at the Chicago Tribune.

I have to wonder about the value of these huge take-home projects in the first place.  My own theory is that kids too young to handle such enormous assignments should not be assigned them in the first place.  I think a class project at school is a much better way to make sure that every kid learns something, rather than, for example, asking second graders to build something using electricity and magnets (another Tribune example).  Some teachers in the article agree with me, it seems and are moving toward group and individual projects to be completed during school hours rather than assigned for homework.

My kids have yet to attend school and may end up doing  several years of home schooling--in part to avoid these kinds of projects of questionable educational value.  What is your policy on big school projects?  How much do you help?  Does your school have a way to regulate parent involvement in such assignments?

 

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Comments

 

larry said:

I agree that parents who come from a professional background do indeed spoil their kids by helping them overtly. Helping your child with his or her school work is good, but only when needed. I mean exercising <a href="www.lorest.com/powercop">parental control</a> once in a while is necessary. Undue help only makes them dull for they then begin to see an easy way out.

Disclaimer: The views expressed in this comment are solely mine and no one is to be blamed for them. If they do somehow offend your sentiments, then I take full responsibility for it and thus apologize for the same.

March 25, 2009 2:42 PM
 

J said:

As a former teacher, I saw all too much parent help.  I was a high school English teacher, and there were many essays I read that had me nearly convinced that a parent had written it themselves, later pretty much confirmed by a parent's offense at a less than stellar grade.  Because many scholarships are based on class ranking (a very unfair practice), it is extremely unfair to kids whose parents don't help them (and they shouldn't--at least not this much)!

March 25, 2009 4:10 PM
 

mar said:

Homework in general makes me angry. If they've got your kid for 6-8 hours for 5 days a week, why the hell do they need to reach into your home life to control and wreck that too?

March 25, 2009 4:45 PM
 

misboots86 said:

Why the hell can't you take 1/2 an hour of your day and help your kid learn something???? People like you are the problem with education today. Parents don't care and don't want to be involved/bothered with school, or they care WAY too much and do their kids work for them. And I love how you say "reach into your home life and wreck that too." What else do teachers and school "wreck" in your life???

March 25, 2009 5:25 PM
 

Lex said:

Well, if the homework was only a half an hour, then maybe it would be less of a problem. However, I watched today as the kid I babysit for worked from almost exactly when he got home from school to when he went to bed (about 3 hours, not counting the hour I let him eat dinner and play with his dog) to finish his homework after being at school from 7:50 to 4:30. You tell me when these kids have time to be kids.

March 25, 2009 10:30 PM
 

Shannon LC Cate said:

Actually misboots, parents who are the most concerned about homework being a problem are probably also the most involved in "helping their kids learn something."  In my case, I don't want my kids wasting time on busy work when they could be doing something self-directed, rooted in their own interests and therefore much more likely to help them actually learn in a way that sticks and is useful in the future.

March 25, 2009 11:19 PM
 

Sheri said:

I think homework depends on the teacher.  

My middle child is in first grade and I do NOT look forward to science fair.  Our school system expect the kids to participate from second grade and beyond.  It is painfully obvious which kids did their own project and who had parental help or even had parents do the project for them.  

When I mentioned this to the principal she shrugged her shoulders and said something like "at least the parent has to spend time with the kid."

Nice.

March 26, 2009 9:51 AM
 

Elise said:

I know that you are aware that children of highly educated parents are at an advantage, every study on the relationship between socio-economic status and parental education level will tell you that.

While I agree with the wrongness of parents doing a child's work for them (ie plagiarism, academic misconduct)to increase their competiveness, I take issue with the idea that children aren't learning from having their parents involved in science fair projects and the like. Isn't the core of homeschooling that you help your kids to learn independently by providing support and guidance? I am a scientist and see my coworkers helping their kids to complete complex projects by providing expertise, instruction and imparting valuable time and project management skills that don't seem to be part of the regular school curriculum. Many of these projects are for school credit, but many are just for fun. I've also seen parents push their kids to hand in publication-quality reports that were heavily edited by the parents. But overall, I think that kids who have parents able to help them with projects are privileged, not spoiled, and I wouldn't want to take that away from them because not all children are equally fortunate.

Honestly, I think there needs to be a wholesale shift in this country's attitude towards learning and education. There is just something wrong about calling out children who are going above and beyond because they have highly involved and motivated parents.

BTW, the documentary Spellbound is a perfect illustration of the spectrum of parental involvement and how it relates to academic success. I'd love to hear your thoughts on it.

March 26, 2009 3:25 PM
 

Shannon LC Cate said:

Well, Elise, yeas, in fact, our version of homeschooling has to do with being a very hands-on participant in our kids' education.  But I think some of the examples in the article are about parents doing a project for a child, or "helping" a child through a project that is far beyond that child's own grasp.  That isn't educational, in my view.  Education requires choosing exactly the right projects to give the child a sense of mastery while also challenging her to move to the next level.  Homeschooling (and certain kinds of school-schooling) allows for a child to do a good deal of the choosing herself, thus putting her very much in the right spot.  Leading her through her own research on a topic is a much more educative experience than picking something for her and letting her watch you do it.

It's not possible to determine which of these two things is happening without knowing a lot more about each individual case, and I am sure that there are some scientist parents who are very much an educational asset to their kids.  (I like to think I'd be an asset in the realm of language to my kids.)  But I can certainly understand the frustration of teachers and science fair judges that kids are bringing in projects that were too parent-led.  And I stand by my call to those parents who have such educations and time on their hands to lend that expertise to the whole classroom, not just their own kids.

March 26, 2009 4:09 PM
 

Shannon said:

Well, my dad is an engineer and the only reason I passed my computer programming elective in college is that he did all the coding I couldn't figure out. As a teacher, I think most of the stupid projects that children are expected to complete for homework are time-wasters. Sure, the science fair project is to get kids interested in something more challenging and to teach them how to follow an empirical process, but why in second grade?? Seven-year-olds cannot independently research, organize, and conduct an experiment, then report the results on a neatly decorated project board. I liked the approach my previous school took: kindergartners through 4th graders do class projects, and 5th graders work at school to complete a small group science project. The teacher is there to make sure the kids do the work and learn the process on their own. My own science projects were awesome, but my dad did the experiments and my mom made the backboard. Nuff said.

March 27, 2009 6:15 PM

About Shannon LC Cate

Shannon LC Cate, PhD is a lesbian housewife and work-from-home mother of two girls via domestic, open, transracial adoption. They are both under five and already too brilliant and beautiful for their own good. Shannon lives, writes and assembles tricycles in Chicago, Illinois.

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