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When a Mother Goes Bald

Posted by JeanneSager

I've spent the last month and a half knocking down doors trying to convince a lot of broke people to give me money so I could shave my head. 

Even in a bad economy, I hit my small goal of $1,000 raised for the St. Baldrick's Foundation - so you can all laugh at my very bald head.

Ready for it?

Yes, that's me, bald. My head got stuck on my pillow Saturday night, and I can officially clean out from under my nails just by rubbing my fingers across my scalp, but it was worth it.

I'm a hero for kids with cancer. Everyone who shaved their heads during this St. Baldrick's season is a hero. So is everyone who pulled out their wallets and gave - whether it was $1 or $1,00.

In many ways, the smaller amounts meant all that much more - because they came from people I knew were struggling this year. As one fellow shavee told me at a firehouse last week where twenty firemen came together like a true band of brothers and shaved their heads - "people still believe in a good cause."

I walked down the line among men who get out of bed in the middle of the night to rush out in their turnout gear and run into burning buildings, men who are used to ragging on the reporter just because they can, and they were shy, quiet. "Anything for the kids," they admitted. I nodded. "No, anything," one man said, looking me straight in the eye.

Most of us will do anything for their kids. But kids overall? I have to shave my head every year - not because my daughter has cancer (thank goodness) - but because I can't look a sick child in the eyes and not see my daughter standing there. I can't hear the story of a child stricken with a leptomenengial tumor at three and not think, Oh my God, my daughter is only three. I can't turn off the mother in me when I hear about children's cancer. 

There are hundreds of other charities - worthy charities - but I'm a parent. So I pick this one. And every year, for as long as I'm still growing hair, I'll give it up, hoping that some day, one day, that $2, $25, $100 I talked out of someone, will change another parent's world. 

Want to donate on someone's head? Check out the St. Baldrick's Foundation website and see if anyone you know shaved their head this year. 

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Comments

 

Barb said:

Great job! THANK YOU for your contribution.

March 30, 2009 10:18 AM
 

maeby said:

you're still pretty =P

great job on raising cash and awareness.

March 30, 2009 11:01 AM
 

Knitty said:

You look wonderful!  Good way to save on haircuts in this tough economy, too. ;)

March 30, 2009 12:33 PM
 

elohveeee12 said:

I commented on your original post on this. I hadn't even heard of St. Baldrick's until reading that, but I went and checked the site out and decided to go for it. I had mine done on March 14th. And my hair is already starting to grow back in, it's not at the "velcro" stage anymore. Any time I tried to put on a shirt or hat, or any time my head came in contact with anything, it would stick to it.

But I still love it, showers take less time, I don't have to worry about my hair getting messed up, or too frizzy. And best of all I rasied $420 for St. Baldricks.

Anyways, I just wanted to thank you for your original post, as well as the follow up. If you hadn't written about it, I would never have known about the great work that the foundation does.

March 30, 2009 1:51 PM
 

JeanneSager said:

elohveeee12: the best part of that first post was getting another person on board - thank YOU for what you did! Hopefully we'll go bald - together apart - again next year!

March 30, 2009 2:17 PM
 

Manjari said:

You look great, and you've done a wonderful thing.

March 30, 2009 2:40 PM
 

Tara said:

I'm not laughing.  You are beautiful, not just for your looks, but also due to your enormous heart.  You should be so proud.

March 30, 2009 7:17 PM
 

k said:

you look fantastic bald! good job :)

March 31, 2009 2:59 AM
 

3carnations said:

Bald is a very youthful look for you. :)

March 31, 2009 8:50 AM
 

Christine said:

I am proud to be a woman when I see what my fellow sisters can accomplish!  Kudos to you!

April 7, 2009 4:00 PM
 

Beausmyboy said:

I love ya bald.  You've got the perfect head for it.  Cheers on doing a great job once again for St. Baldricks.  You rock.

April 10, 2009 11:53 AM

About JeanneSager

Jeanne Sager is a writer who lives in upstate New York with her husband, daughter, a dog and too many cats. She refuses to believe motherhood comes with pumpkin appliqued sweaters, and she';s not ready to apologize for having only one child. She writes about raising her kid in her own hometown and the mom stuff she's not embarrassed to own at her blog, Inside Out (http://jeannesager.blogspot.com), she's contributing editor of Grand Magazine, and she's a regular essayist here on Babble

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