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Dad Accused of Selling Daughter For Beer and Meat

Posted by Brett Singer

This man sold his daughter into marriage, but maybe that's what he thought he was supposed to do.So here's one you haven't heard before. At least I hope not. Because it's a bummer.

California resident Marcelino de Jesus Martinez was charged with selling his 14-year-old daughter in for, and I quote, "$16,000, beer and meat." He first pled not guilty, but that plea was switched to no contest, meaning that he will be sentenced on May 7. The penalty is deportation and up to a year in jail.  Had he been found guilty of the initial charges, he could have spent ten years in jail.

Martinez reportedly "sold" his daughter to the family of Margarito de Jesus Galindo, and she lived with them for a week. The plan was marriage, the cash, beer and meat were the dowry. When Martinez didn't get his cash (it's not clear if he ever got the beer or the meat), he called the cops, who presumably were somewhat less than sympathetic.

The last part creates an interesting question explored at this USA Today blog entry. Apparently this practice is not uncommon in indigenous Mexican communities. For this reason, police dropped an initial charge of human trafficking. The Californian quotes Honorary Mexican Consul Blanca Zarazua as saying that "This whole case is a convergence of multiple layers of misunderstandings."

So I think I'll take back my opening paragraph. For some people, the only weird part of the story is the involvement of the police.

In general I'm pro-cultural sensitivity, but in this case, it's trickier. On the one hand, selling your daughter into marriage is something we clearly frown upon in this country. On the other hand, the father clearly had no idea that what he was doing was illegal, as shown by the fact that he went to the police in order to get paid.

What do you think? Should people who live in the United States be bound by our laws? Or can we make exceptions?

Source: AP via Google

Image:  The Californian

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Comments

 

Lisa said:

Of course people who are in the U.S. are bound by our laws.  Frankly, I would be stunned if this were legal in Mexico.

It's disgusting.

April 7, 2009 8:04 PM
 

K said:

Surprisingly arranged marriages with an attached dowry is not that uncommon throughout the world.  In fact, many Americans with their family ancestors being from Ireland and England were treated worse.....marriages were not arranged for love at all, but what power could be gained by the arrangement for the parents, the children were not really thought of.

April 7, 2009 8:47 PM
 

KC said:

What makes this more than a cultural issue is that this girl was 14, not 24.  Arranged marriages with dowry may be common throughout the world including forced child marriages.  However, forced child marriages are NOT ok and the international community outside the US has recognized this (see UN Convention of the Rights of the Child).  Forced child marriage sets young girls (12, 13, 14 year olds) up for the dangers of pregnancy and childbirth before the full development of their bodies, not to mention the other psychological effects.  Yes, it appears this man did not know what he was doing was illegal but unless people like this are prosecuted in countries that have protections against forced child marriage, it will continue to be accepted practice in these communities.  Ignorance of the law is not an excuse for other crimes, why should it be in this case?

That being said, in this specific case, assuming the girl is returned to her family and nothing bad happened to her during her week of living with the other family, the punishment as described here is probably more appropriate than 10 years in prison or whatever the punishment would have been for human trafficking.

April 8, 2009 1:48 AM
 

leahsmom said:

KC, I think you raise a really good point - but I also believe that not all cultures agree on how old a girl must be in order for her parents to arrange and execute her marriage. That makes it more likely that the father didn't understand why his actions were wrong. (Not to weigh in on the outcome, just the events leading up to this incident.)

Earlier on in our own history, as K points out, young girls - very young girls - were subject to arranged marriages - and I think that this is still quite common in many parts of the world.  It would be nice if there were a consensus - and I'd prefer that consensus be that no one has the right to arrange a marriage for a woman no matter what her age is.  But I think we are too far from that to even imagine it.

April 8, 2009 9:47 AM
 

tristan said:

i agree with kc and leahsmom. I have traveled many places and all of them had one thing in common i had to fallow the countrys laws to a tee. why should it be any diffrent for people who visit the U.S.A or here in Canada. im sure it could just be a commin mistake on his part but i feel thats somthing one should look in to when in another country, however wrong we may think arranged marrage is.  

April 8, 2009 1:19 PM

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Brett Singer is a writer and father living in Manhattan with his wonderful wife and two terrific sons (referred to here as Thing 1 and Thing 2). He writes about music for the Boston Phoenix, parenting for Babble and daddytips.com, and other topics for anyone else who will have him.

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