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(Public) Breastfeeding Now Legal in Massachusetts!

Posted by Kate Tuttle

Okay, so that's a slightly misleading headline (shocking, I know!). Breastfeeding has never been illegal here, or really anywhere. But until and unless individual states pass laws specifically exempting them, breastfeeding mothers have always been vulnerable to prosection under laws against obscenity and "lewd behavior." The Massachusetts law, signed in January, went into effect last week and its sponsors hope it will not only protect individual mothers, but nurture a more pro-breastfeeding culture. 

From the Boston Globe article:

Up till now, women who breastfed their babies in public could have been prosecuted for indecent exposure or lewd conduct. If convicted, they could even have been forced to register as sex offenders, proponents of the bill said.

The new law authorizes breastfeeding in public places and makes it clear it is not illegal.

"This law is a long time in coming. The idea behind this law is to make sure that women who want to breastfeed their children aren't prevented from doing that. And the message should go out that security guards and storekeepers and even police officers don't have the right to prevent a woman from breastfeeding her child," said Representative David Linsky, a Natick Democrat who backed the bill.

This isn't the first state law to specificially exempt nursing moms from anti-obscenity laws -- 40 other states have passed similar legislation, most in the past decade and a half -- and at this point it's more interesting to see which states do not provide such protection: Idaho, Michigan, Nebraska, North Dakota, South Dakota, Virginia, Washington, West Virginia. Indications are that most of them will follow suit. Perhaps most illustrative, though, is the lingering objection to such laws, as seen in the fact that it took eight years of sponsors putting up the Massachusetts bill before it was finally signed into law, and as currently seen in the comments section following the Globe article online. While many were very positive ("at last!" "yay!" "this is a great day"), a surprising number expressed outrage that women can now nurse in public without fear of harrassment or even arrest.

A sampling: 

"I am a mother of two and i find it disgusting when a woman breastfeeds in public. People take this to an extreme and are practically nude! I do not want my boys to have to see this."

"Show a little respect for those of us who don't want to be subjected to this wonderful bonding experience. I think that breast feeding should be done in private. Nothing is the world is more awkward than running into a woman breast feeding a child. I most certainly do not want to have to explain to my young children why this person is exposing her private parts in public. My parents raised all of us on bottles and we turned out just fine. If you made the choice to go "natural" that so be it, but do not cram your choice down our throats."

"And really...would it be that hard to just use a bottle when you are out in public? I mean really??"

Leaving aside the extreme ignorance of how breastfeeding works -- as if nursing mothers should all want to bottle feed as well? -- it's fascinating to me how many of the commenters are worried about their small children being exposed to breastfeeding. Um, I get it that most of those objections come from parents who themselves used bottles, but why do they assume their children would share their discomfort -- at least, until they teach it to them, as they so obviously will. Babble readers, what do you think? Is it damaging for a child to see another child nursing with its mother? If so, why? And if not, what's the best come-back you can think of to some parent who gives you the stink-eye while breastfeeding in the same vicinity as their children? 

 

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Comments

 

Andrea said:

It's amazing to me that people think this is something that will scar their children for life. It seems obvious to me that you would simply explain to your child that the lady is feeding her child- he drinks from her breasts and you drink from a bottle- and then go on with your shopping or lunch or whatever. Am I missing something?

In addition, for those who wonder "And really...would it be that hard to just use a bottle when you are out in public? I mean really??" - Yes, yes it would if you have a child who absolutely refuses to take the bottle. Why should I force my child to drink from something he hates so you can feel comfortable?

April 13, 2009 12:58 PM
 

MistressScorpio said:

Awesome! I will now make it a point to offer my son the breast at EVERY OPPORTUNITY when I am in Massachusetts! If they don't like seeing me breastfeed than perhaps they should carry brown paper bags to cover their heads with. No wonder they refer to them as Massholes.

April 13, 2009 1:15 PM
 

Sara said:

yes yes yes, totally agree with Andrea. Seriously, is it really that hard to just NOT look???

Kids will only know the ignorance their parents teach them. I like how one of the commenters said "natural" as if breastfeeding is something totally new and just being coined that term like everything else "natural" these days.

April 13, 2009 1:22 PM
 

liberrian said:

Wow, this is the first report I've read that this bill finally passed...and I live in Massachusetts and at some point last year or maybe the year before was writing to my state reps about this. But I guess for the local papers, this isn't news.

Anyway, I question the imagination of anyone who thinks that, "Nothing is the world is more awkward than running into a woman breast feeding a child." Nothing? Really? What about running into a woman breastfeeding herself? That would be awkward.

Anyway, good news, and a long time coming--I was shocked when I learned that our fair state was so behind on this issue.

April 13, 2009 4:06 PM
 

Angus said:

On a most basic level, I find it laughable that common sense needs to be legislated.

As a mother of two boys (with one on the way) who were both nursed for over a year, I find it sad that people (especially other mothers!?!?) are still so ignorant that this botheres them.  My almost 5yr old son, as well as my 12 yr old nephew both understand what's going on.  I can only see good things coming from kids not sexualizing every.thing.

April 13, 2009 11:45 PM
 

Jennifer said:

The moms who are disgusted by other moms nursing in public are idiots. WTH is wrong with these women? Are we supposed to lock ourselves up in our homes all day and make our other  children stay inside until the nursing child is weaned?

It's so easy. Just teach your kids what boobs are and get over yourself.  

I always use a nursing cover when I'm outside nursing and I'm sure I'm exposing less than most other women do everyday. But I do see moms nursing sans covers and it doesn't bother me one bit. They're just feeding their children. I can't even believe there needs to be a law to protect a woman from possible prosecution. WTH.

April 14, 2009 12:37 AM
 

sumoo said:

I have to draw attention to this comment.  It made me laugh:  "What about running into a woman breastfeeding herself? That would be awkward."

April 14, 2009 8:33 AM
 

sharronnie said:

Hmmm... I am a mother of three and have never breastfed in public BUT not because I think it is inappropriate!  My older two took bottles easily when we were out, but my youngest WOULD NOT.  I agree - it can be pretty much impossible to get a baby to take a bottle!  I would always feed my babies in the car or in a public restroom stall (very awkward and uncomfortable) just because I am a very private person.  Kudos to those who breastfeed in public.  I prefer it when they use a nursing cover but when they don't, whatever.  I like this comment "I'm sure I'm exposing less than most other women do everyday"  Amen, sister!

On a related note, I have been so grateful to malls and other public places for providing "nursing rooms" for breastfeeding mommies!  More comfy than a restroom, more private (for us shy types) than out and about.  I wish more public places supported nursing mothers and provided such a room!

April 23, 2009 10:09 PM
 

eringremlin said:

I'm a Masshole myself, and a public breastfeeder if need be. While I prefer to have a bottle of expressed milk handy, there have certainly been times when my Beef needs to be fed NOW and I'm all that's available.

When this bill passed, my own brother informed me that since I can now breastfeed in public without fear of retribution, he should be able to have sex with his wife on the table of the diner where we were eating. Ugh, don't get me started on that one.... Can't wait until they have kids. Maybe it will help him relax his body hang ups a bit.

April 30, 2009 9:28 AM

About Kate Tuttle

I'm raising a toddler and a teenager in a leafy suburb just outside Boston. In between having kids I've been an editor and writer, most recently with the African American National Biography and the late great Africana.com.

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