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Is Your Toddler a Psychopath?

Posted by KeriF

I know that the point of this article over at MSNBC.com wasn't to scare me into thinking my 3-year-old is a burgeoning psychopath, but unfortunately, that's all I got out of it.

Here's a few highlights:

"...some now believe they can tell if preschoolers are showing risk factors for becoming a psychopath, someone potentially capable of committing bone-chilling crimes without an ounce of guilt or remorse."

"Some mental health professionals say they can recognize early markers in kids as young as toddlers for what may later develop into psychopathy..."

"...even 2-year-olds can exhibit signs that they are lacking 'early empathy'..."

Example: "...a typical toddler may hit another child, watch that child cry and then cry himself in response because he feels bad. But a toddler who lacks empathy will be unfazed by the other child's reaction or efforts at parental discipline."

So, for instance, if a 3-year-old adorable red-headed boy hits his cousin on the head, then smiles and does a little dance while his cousin cries hysterically, is that cause for concern? 

I know I'm grossly reducing an entire body of research to my own feeble insecurities as a parent of a toddler, but I can't help it. I've got a strong-willed child. Sometimes I think that's a good thing. And sometimes, like after reading this article, I don't.

Obviously it's not as simplistic as tagging a 2-year-old as a psychopath. Scientists stress that while you may be able to spot certain early signs, like lack of empathy, in toddlers, it's still very possible that these toddlers will outgrow these behaviors. The hope is that if danger signs are spotted early enough, doctors can help kids overcome the unhealthy tendencies. 

Of course, the difficulty lies in identifying which behaviors are "callous-emotional" and which are "typical toddler." As almost everyone I told about this article replied: "Aren't all toddlers psychopaths?"

Photo and source: MSNBC.com

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Comments

 

Bunny said:

My little cousin used to talk endlessly about burning skulls and bleeding bodies and killing people and dead things as a toddler, to the point at which it was really pretty darn creepy. He had this freaky Charles Manson stare, too. He is now a perfectly lovely and well-adjusted teenager, and a joy to be around (a rare thing for me to say about a 15-year-old!). So, take heart!

April 22, 2009 4:18 PM
 

diera said:

I was at the playground one day with my son and was watching him and some other children play in the sandbox. While I was watching, one little boy, maybe three or four, walked up to another kid and clobbered him as hard as he could swing with a shovel, no provocation that I could see.  When the other child wailed, the clobberer looked up, looked around, and caught my eye.  He didn't look scared or worried or anything; he gave me a very level, almost threatening stare (like, "You got something to say, lady?  No?  I didn't think so.") and then went calmly back to his own game.  It was downright creepy.  I've never seen another kid act like that before or since.  

I would have been way off predicting what my own son would be like based on his personality at four, and this was a stranger's child I only watched for a few minutes, but still, you would have no trouble convincing me that that kid was going to grow up to be a psychopath.

April 22, 2009 5:11 PM
 

Marj said:

Just an aside - why is it the red-headed kid is always the villian?

You know that crap about red-heads having terrible tempers is just an stereotype, right?

April 22, 2009 5:47 PM
 

Jen said:

Oh my gosh, I thought the same thing about my own 3 year old, who laughs when I say, "Ouch."  I guess they can't all be psycopaths...

April 22, 2009 5:58 PM
 

Knitty said:

I don't know, Marj -- both my toddler and I are red-heads and we both have pretty hot tempers!  But then we're just two people, not a scientific sample. :)

That's a really creepy story, diera.  I can't imagine what it would be like to have a child who did things like that, except maybe confine him to the house and a therapist's office.

April 22, 2009 6:02 PM
 

Alice said:

Junk science.  I dont see any real research here just a bunch of opinions.  Dont believe everything you read.  This is jst written to get ratings and reactions.  Stop watching "Law and Order" and reading murder mysteries.  Most toddlers still think they are attached physically to their mothers so naturally they have no empathy for other children.  They are cause and effect at that age.  

April 22, 2009 9:40 PM
 

leahsmom said:

I don't know if it makes anyone feel any better, but I have a family member who is clinically a psychopath.  We've all gone over and over our collective memories - and, while clues in the aggregate may seem to make sense now - he also could have turned out just fine. I'm not sure there are big warning signs for this - and it's extremely hard to have one of these people in your family if you do.  

April 23, 2009 11:59 AM
 

Benaya said:

Movies and TV are teaching our toddler be a Psychopath. So, don't leave our toddler watch movies or tv alone.

April 24, 2009 2:03 PM
 

Dar said:

My Daughter and I is wondering about our 5 year old boy. It's heart breaking to think such a thing. Guilty and all. But we would like to get it stopped if he could be. I told her to mention these things to his Dr. but not infront of him. Mean to animals,not killing them just really mean . I don,t know it's just really bothering us so bad we think such a thing.         Thanks Dar

May 13, 2009 11:32 AM

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