Recently
a New York judge lowered the age at which a teenage girl may obtain the morning
after pill without parental consent from 18 to 17. Said judge further
stated he’d like to see the consent age requirement removed completely and the
pill offered over the counter.
Of course
conservative bloggers ripped this story a new a-hole. “Grrr! Rawr! Tarnation!
Hiss!” said Ann Coulter, right before getting fed a raw steak on a stick and
falling into a deep sleep.
Okay, some
conservative bloggers have a point or two about the issue of giving teens more
access to the Plan B pill. Rachel Campos-Duffy of Parentdish sez,
“The morning after pill is not an
aspirin! There can be serious side effects such as nausea, cramping and even
bleeding – not to mention the mental strain of taking a high dosage of
hormones. Without a prescription, many teens will endure these symptoms alone,
without the guidance or support of a doctor or parent. This is an unnecessary
and unacceptable risk.”
Indeed, the
health ramifications are important. I mean, will someone please think of the
children. The trick is, should the morning after pill get over-the-counter
status, it would be no different than a kid buying Nyquil and going “Robo,”
glugging themselves into a nice little NyComa. Campos-Duffy’s essential
argument is over the counter drugs are dangerous too. They shouldn’t be abused,
but I doubt a teenage girl would, if given the chance, make a regular habit of
gobbling morning after pills. Should a young woman ever need to resort to such
a measure, the vast likelihood is it would be a one-time deal. Maybe some
disagree. Well, I can personally say I hope my daughter doesn’t go out and have
a ton of unprotected sex just so see has a good excuse to get high off Plan
B.
And I wonder
if this ruling brings back conservative fears that access to contraceptive aids
increases the likelihood of crazy unprotected teen sex. The research, however,
proves the opposite. The less contraception is an option, the more likely kids
are going to engage in dangerous sexual behavior.
So is this
really about health, or is it about control? Again, Rachel Campos-Duffy,
“…as parents we understand that our
children will, at one time or another, do things we are not particularly happy
with or proud of – and that may involve discovering that our child is sexually
active. Yet, as parents, we need to know these things so we can counsel and
love our children through these circumstances according to our family's values.
That's our job!”
I don’t
necessarily disagree with the above statement, but you need to read the fine
print. Consent laws equal control over your child’s sex life. Advocating,
educating, encouraging-- these I think are appropriate tools to guiding your
child toward good sex practices, but control?
How much
control should you have over your kid’s sex life?
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