Burlesque is not the first thing that comes to mind
when I consider how to impart healthy self-esteem to girls. But Deirdre Timmons,
the director of A Wink and a Smile—a new documentary about the resurgence of
burlesque—thinks her 12-year-old’s exposure to burlesque has helped her have "no body image issues whatsoever." As she recently told Halogen Life, "I'd like to think it has a healthy impact on her being around on these women who are comfortable with their bodies."
Timmons was originally drawn to burlesque as a documentary
subject in large part because of its deviation from mainstream standards of
beauty.
She says, “I think a lot of women started to see burlesque
happening and thinking, ‘That’s my body up there. That woman is my age, and I
thought I was supposed to stop being glamorous and sexy.’”
As part of her work for the film, 42-year-old Timmons
studied and performed burlesque herself, which meant that her daughter became
very familiar with the medium. “When I was learning how to dance myself,”
Timmons said, “I was making my daughter write down the choreography, and I’d be
like, ‘Should I bump here or grind here? Which way are my tassels twirling?’”
Depending on Timmons’ routine (I’m assuming she chose not to
share a super risqué, striptease-type number with her daughter), that sounds to
me like a wonderful mother-daughter bonding experience. Burlesque aside, it can
only be beneficial for daughters to see their mothers fully devoted to and
fulfilled by their work—particularly when the mother allows her children to
share in her work life.
Not being an avid burlesque connoisseur myself, I can’t make
a final judgment on its abilities to empower women. But judging from the movie
trailer below (NSFW), the women interviewed certainly seem to be interested in
burlesque for reasons I fully support: self-confidence, enjoyment, and embracing
their eccentricities no matter what other people think.
Still, burlesque is about sex appeal—it’s wonderful for kids
to know that rhythm, stage presence, and talent are not dependent upon having a
certain kind of body, but you certainly wouldn’t want your daughter coming home
with a feather boa and sequined underwear.
Judging from this trailer, would you let your teens or preteens see
this movie?
Photo: Halogen Life
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