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  • Parenting Humor: Not Always Funny

    When I was a little kid, like ten or so, my favorite book was Erma Bombeck's The Grass Is Always Greener Over The Septic Tank. I didn't really get a lot of it—I didn't even really know what a septic tank was, because we were on the sewer line. But I knew funny when I read it, and Erma was funny. I read her newspaper column religiously, too. I still grab vintage Bombeck paperbacks when I see them at thrift stores.

    Tim Bete is the current director of the Erma Bombeck Writer's Workshop, and I really have to ask why. Or maybe the late '90s ruined me for comedy, I don't know. But his schtick is the "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" variety that just somehow seems dated and kind of sad to me.

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  • WWED? What Would Erma (Bombeck) Do?

    I'd like to imagine what Erma Bombeck would have said about the hipster parenting brouhaha.  For the uninitiated, Erma Bombeck is the matriarch ruler of the mother-humor genre.  Long before women who took to blogs were accused of being Handmaidens of Narcissus, there was Erma.  She wrote from the late 40s until her death in the mid-90s.  Her prize humor was clever without being angry, revolutionary but not self-consciously so.  She was the heroine of the stay-at-homes and we sure could use her levity and wry wit these days. 

    While some of her jokes about football-watching husbands (are they still allowed to do that?) seem dated, her quips about having "fun" banging her head against the top bunk ring true, though today's mama would more likely joke about needing a morning vat of wine than self-flagellating with furniture.

    So what do you think of hip parenting, Erma?  I can just hear her laugh out loud and say "the only hip parenting I know about is midnight ice cream cake extravaganzas followed by stretchy polyester pants straining over hips wider than my husband's car."


  • "Hipster Parents": And Now David Brooks Weighs In

    Always with the writing about the hipster parents.  And now David Brooks joins the fray.  Brooks, New York Times Op-Ed columnist and great-grandfather of 10, addresses the usual list of problems with Babble, Alterna Dad, and Urban Baby.  And like Time Magazine before him, calls out pretty little Girl's Gone Child writer and Babble contributor, Rebecca Woolf, who elicited a comparison to Erma Bombeck (we should all be so lucky!).

    Brooks covers the usual complaints against the hipster parent set: failure to grow-up, worship of fashion and the icons of youth, and an inability to surrender to Barney.  My response to David, and anyone else ranting and raving about Babble and all other supposedly hip parenting modalities of expression, is "turn away."  If it bothers you so much, then just don't read it.  On the other hand, most scrappy types enjoy a fight and I can certainly respect that.

    Truthfully, I find major media covering non-vanilla parenting very heartening.  If Babble hadn't come along when it did, I would have been forced to pillage and burn every copy of Parenting Magazine in every doctor's office around town.  How many smiling, skinny, happily crafting and cooking suburban moms can one stand reading about before one is driven to heavy drugs?  The nice thing about all this discussing of the hip parents, is it gives us a new scapegoat and something against which we can measure ourselves.  And I don't know about you, but I'd much rather be compared to an angst-ridden hipster than a Prozac filled cheerful-head any day of the week.



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