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  • Gay Babies: The New Man-Purse?

    Here's s new twist on two old themes:  One, the theme of "children-as-status-symbol" and two, the theme of "gays-with-babies-are-conservative."

    To give you a fair warning, both drive me nuts.

    Anyone who thinks a child is a status symbol (for anyone besides a multiple-nanny-employing movie star, that is) does not have children.  Much as I'd love to dress my kids in designer clothes and parade them down Michigan Avenue on a boutique shopping spree, this just doesn't work in real life, where kids spit up, diapers blow out, potty training takes the better part of a year and I don't have time to separate my darks from my whites from my pastels when I try to tackle the monster laundry pile in the corner of my room.

    I think this kids-as-status-symbol thing is a misunderstanding of

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  • Two Moms is Not Enough

    Quick! How many children's pop-culture products can you think of that features same-sex parents? Two? Four? Six?

    I can count maybe a dozen, mostly books.  Of those, I like maybe two or three.  We have And Tango Makes Three and like it.  We have a couple of other books that quietly portray same-sex parents without it being the central issue, but when it comes to kids' culture that reflects the family configuration our kids know first-hand, our options are woefully limited.

    Newish to the scene in this small pool of options is

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  • When Mommy + Mommy + Big Brother + Two Babies + Drag Queen = A Family

    Once upon a time there was a mommy who had a little boy. She wanted the best for him but times were tight, so she took a roommate to help keep things comfortable for the little family. The roommate and the mommy became friends and when the mommy decided she'd like to have another baby, the roommate was there to support her. The mommy tried and tried but wasn't able to have another baby. Soon the roommate decided she'd also like to have a baby, and so the two sought out all the possible perfect princes in the land to provide the magic seeds that would help the two women friends become pregnant. But what they found was a prince who was quite like a fabulous and willing queen, and so he inseminated the ladies and the spell was enough to ensure that they both had babies of their own. Gloriously, as the women's bellies grew, so did their love for one another. And now, the two mommies, two babies, one big brother and drag queen daddy live as one big family, happily and hopefully, forever after.

    Now this is the kind of fairy tale I'm talking about. This lesbian couple from the UK "felt broody," "fell pregnant" (don't you just love real English?) and then fell in love after being inseminated by a drag queen friend. After going through quite a bit to actually get pregnant and find a doctor who would give the then-single lesbian women care without judgment, Steph, 23, and Jo, 40, shared a friendship that evolved into a desire to create a family together. And while daddy wears sequins and by mutual agreement is only in the picture part-time, the mamas consider themselves and their children very lucky.

    Says Jo, "There can be no doubt about how much they were wanted. We can say to them, hand on heart...they were planned, and they are surrounded by more love than they will ever need."

    And when asked how they will explain how their family came to be, she goes on, "I think we'll make it sound like a fairytale, because really, it is."


  • White House Slammed for "Sinful" Lesbian Photo

    Now here's a way to drive up support for the administration: Post hot lesbian parent photos on the main White House web site. Finally, they're doing something right. Unless, of course, you talk to Stephen Bennett -- founder of the Stephen Bennett Ministry of Ignorance and Stupity or something like that.

    Bennett is bent out of shape because a photo showing the devil and his wife, Lynn Cheney, holding their new grandson included a caption explaining that the boy's parents are Cheney's daughter and her partner.

    And because there's really nothing important going on in the world today, Bennett took time out of his insanely busy schedule to say, "I say shame on the White House, shame on the president and shame on the vice president for allowing such a caption to be 'officially' added onto the White House website and such a beautiful photo of two happy grandparents and their new grandchild."

    Huh? Did you miss the controversy? What's the crime here, you ask? Why is Bennett so fumed? The caption listed Mary Cheney and her partner, Heather Poe, as "parents." And because lesbians obviously can't parent in any way, Bennett goes on to give a ninth-grade biology lesson on birds and bees and then throws his hands in the air and orders a "massage" from Ted Haggard. Tool.


  • Dick Cheney's Gay Daughter Expecting a Boy

    mary cheney heather poeVice President Dick Cheney announced recently that his daughter and her partner are expecting a boy. (We first told you about the pregnancy in December.) Mary Cheney, 38, and her partner Heather Poe, 45, have been together since their college days and this is their first child.

    Of the legal standing regarding his daughter's relationship with Poe, Vice President Cheney says:

    I think each state ought to have the capacity to decide how they want to handle those issues... And I obviously think it's important for us as a society to be tolerant and respectful of whatever arrangements people enter into.

    For the record, Mary Cheney is in favor of legalized same-sex marriage. The man her father controls reports to is not.

    [photo credit: Jeff Haynes/AFP/Getty] 


     



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