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  • Better Yet: A Bullet in my Head

     

    Let me start by saying: I love my in-laws. Let me follow that by saying: I love them so much I wouldn’t even consider living next door to them. Which means I won’t be part of this new trend, or “trendlet,” as the experts in this article are calling an emerging pattern of extended families living within spitting distance of each other. On purpose.

    How does this work? And how is it working? One clan made up of the parents their grown children and their young grandchildren lives on a compound in rural New Jersey, where each family has a private house. They use golf carts to go from one home to the other for visits. (They call first, right?) Two new parents in Philadelphia sold their small townhouse and rented an apartment across the courtyard from baby’s grandma. Now they enjoy  -- the one silver lining on this dark, intrusive cloud -- free babysitting.

    Of course, living across the continent from the in-laws, as I do, is just as extreme as playing house in their converted garage. So how close is too close? The next room? A day’s drive? Corsica?

     


  • Bedtime Rituals From the Strollerderby Bloggers, Cuz We Know What Works!

    sleep kidsSince it's already been pointed out here that bedtime rituals are a good idea to prevent "sleep resistance" in kids, we thought we'd mine the collective expertise of the Strollerderby bloggers to give you ideas of what might work in your house.

    Stefania's girls have a bath, brush teeth, watch 10 minutes of a mellow program, read 2 books (with accompanying chant "two books two books two books" as the girls pick their books), have have kisses/hugs, then they're off to bed! That Stefania, she's got this one wired!

    At Alisyn's house, a little OCD goes a long way: 1. eskimo kiss; 2. hug; 3. regular kiss (this sequence repeated 3 times); 4.they exchange forehead kisses; 5. they exchange butterfly kisses; 6. silence or wine and benign neglect depending in the night.

    Jessica's kid spends at least five minutes pinching someone else's elbow or knuckle before he can sleep. No word yet on how this will play out in college dorm situations.

    At Melissa's house, virgins are sacrificed nightly. Hey, ya gotta do what works, right? And she swears her kids sleep great after that, so who am I to judge? 

    Kelly has a long bedtime routine that involves carrots, lots of hairwashing, Harry Potter, capturing insects, and waaay too much caffeine. Don't ask.

    Mike has little routine save watching old episodes of The Gilmore Girls and crying a lot at the injustices performed by network executives. He thinks there might be a baby in the house somewhere too; don't they sleep a lot? 

    Sarah's rituals involve dance party, the Simpsons, and books. I'm pretty sure if my kids found out, they'd want to go live at her house.

    Rachael's kids sing songs from The Sound of Music, followed by multiple applications of the standard "Five More Minutes!" warning.

    And at my house, we read a chapter of something or other and then everyone retires to their respective beds (one of which is also mine, sigh). The oldest reads a bit more on his own, the middle one listens to a kid's guided-visualization sleep CD, and the youngest will ONLY don his nightwear if I sing The Hokey-Pokey at the same time. Like I said, you do what works.

    What goes on at bedtime in your house?









  • Special Needs Families Finding Strength in Numbers With Group Playdates

    family playdateRedheaded Momma writes about her recent family playdate with other families of children with special needs at a local Y, and the entire family returns rejuvenated. As a mom of a child with special needs, I can relate. How nice to hang with families who get the lingo, who know the issues, while at the same time being in an environment where the last thing you talk about is therapy, or special-needs-specific acronyms like EI or IEP, while letting kids just be, well, kids.

    The family playdate: what a huge concept! Special-needs or not, they're a wonderful idea. Though I actively resisted these labeled group activities for a long time after my son was born, I would totally welcome such an opportunity now. I think I'll start with local support groups and move from there. Playdate, anyone?  


  • Wii Whee at the Y: YMCA's Use Wii to Get Kids Moving

    family playing WiiWiiiiiiii! (I've been dying to say that.) Kids at YMCA's around the country have something special in store for them: Nintendo is donating W11 party packs to 100 YMCA's, with the thinking that they will "help bridge the gap between parents and their kids." Which I'm all for. In fact, even though I'm basically opposed to video games for all the reasons other people are (not enough activity, addictive, too much screen time and not enough book time, etc) I'm really really attracted to Wii. Why? The physical aspects of it. (I totally need to cream my eleven-year-old at Wii Sports to prove my prowess) 

    So YMCA? Sign me up. 

    Oh, and what I said about addictive? Never mind. I'm okay with that part. 




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