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  • Canadians Soon to be Even Happier

    When you're Canadian, do you wake up every morning happy ... cold, but happy? I ask because it seems to me that Canadians get it when it comes to families -- healthcare, maternity leave, education. Canadians are just so together, cold but together.

    Take this as an example: national lawmakers there are seriously considering an overhaul of their lawmaking schedule in order to make it more family friendly. The goal? Getting more parents of young children involved in public office.

     

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  • Family Leave: Two Dads Tell Their Stories

    I hope all of you out there enjoying your lattes and tuning out Dragon Tales are ready to hear this: Some states in our fair union are actually granting paid family leave. And get this, even men can get it.

    I know, I know. It's all a bit much, isn't it? Validating men who actually want to stay home to feed babies pumped breastmilk, answering a thousand or more questions an hour and experience the wonderment of child-rearing in its purist, poopiest and sweetest moments.  Giving them a portion of their paycheck so the family doesn't have to subsist on grandparent handouts or college tuition savings accounts for papa to be in the picture. Or even (and this might be sort of a stretch) wiggling out the bricks of the big old wall of the patriarchy (and some playgroups) where women return to work after becoming mothers or parents actually equitably share the primary caregiving responsibilities. It's a crazy world, or at least left coast.

    This inside view of how dads in two families in California are making it work during family leave time is sweet and honest and a damn good appendix to my long list of reasons why I hope Obama works his charm on parenting issues here in Illinois before heading to the big house. Seriously, I want my husband home when we (eventually) have a second child and I don't think he should suck up his sick time or vacation time or our savings to be there. And if by some Democratic miracle it ever does happen, the only thing I'll worry about is what kind of clothes he's picked out for the defenseless child to wear all day.


  • Paid Family Leave: Two Dads Tell Their Stories

    I hope all of you out there enjoying your lattes and tuning out Dragon Tales are ready to hear this: Some states in our fair union are actually granting paid family leave. And get this, even men can get it.

    I know, I know. It's all a bit much, isn't it? Validating men who actually want to stay home to feed babies pumped breastmilk, answering a thousand or more questions an hour and experience the wonderment of child-rearing in its purist, poopiest and sweetest moments.  Giving them a portion of their paycheck so the family doesn't have to subsist on grandparent handouts or college tuition savings accounts for papa to be in the picture. Or even (and this might be sort of a stretch) wiggling out the bricks of the big old wall of the patriarchy (and some playgroups) where women return to work after becoming mothers or parents actually equitably share the primary caregiving responsibilities. It's a crazy world, or at least left coast.

    This inside view of how dads in two families in California are making it work during family leave time is sweet and honest and a damn good appendix to my long list of reasons why I hope Obama works his charm on parenting issues here in Illinois before heading to the big house. Seriously, I want my husband home when we (eventually) have a second child and I don't think he should suck up his sick time or vacation time or our savings to be there. And if by some Democratic miracle it ever does happen, the only thing I'll worry about is what kind of clothes he's picked out for the defenseless child to wear all day.


  • Michelle Obama Takes Time Off for Family: "What Hope Is There for the Rest of Us?"

    michelle obamaThe Washinton Post reported on Friday that Michelle Obama is about to be jobless. She is quitting her position as Vice President of Community and External Affairs at the University of Chicago Hospitals to seek balance in her work-family life as her husband Sen. Barack Obama (D-Ill.) pursues the presidency.

    Michelle Obama shares that she never intended to be a stay-at-home-wife and mother, though she, like every professional working mother, admits to feeling conflicted about her choice to work out of the home.

    Says Michelle Obama, "Every other month [since] I've had children I've struggled with the notion of 'Am I being a good parent? Can I stay home? Should I stay home? How do I balance it all?' I have gone back and forth every year about whether I should work."

    Blogger Pundit Mom takes this all in and asks, "If someone as high-profile as Michelle Obama can't negotiate a family accomodation, what hope is there for the rest of us?"

    Pundit Mom adds that she hopes Barack Obama can use his wife's situation "to illustrate as a campaign issue why more workplaces need to shift the view of what is workable for professional people, women AND men alike." Granted, we don't know what was behind Michelle Obama's leave. Certainly she is high-profile enough that she can have any job she wants when she decides to go back to work. Still, this begs the question, "Should she have had to quit?"

    Pundit Mom doesn't think so: "It's not about women not being able to suck it up and stick it out. It's about dragging employers kicking and screaming into the 21st Century...Maybe they won't get it until more women leave the workplace and they see their bottom lines plummeting when half the qualified work force steps off the track and businesses are left scrambling for qualified replacements."

    I know one organization that will have a lot to say about this. 

    [photo credit: Washington Post] 


  • WA State Considers Paid Family Leave

    Washington State may be the first state to pass a paid family leave law, if a proposed bill passes the state house and secures the Governor's signature (highly likely given Governor Christine Gregoire's stance on related issues).

    Senate Bill 5659, the Family Leave Insurance Bill, passed the Washington State Senate earlier this week.  If it becomes law, businesses would be required to give eligible employees up to 5 weeks of paid family leave to care for a new baby, adoptive child, ill family member, spouse, or for personal sick leave.

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