You know the moment when the world starts to spin the other way,
things stand still, and you know that everything that happens to you
ever after will never be the same as it was before? Consider Vampdaddy. His world blew apart
last June when his then-16-month-old son had a seizure and the
resultant MRI showed a tumor. In his brain. And this
happened on the most ironic of days, if the universe was listening and
thinking about such things: Father's Day.
The posts that
follow are a heart-wrenching assortment of descriptions of the rarefied
world of Cancer: the treatments, the tubes, the endless
hospitalizations, and the dizzying spiral descent into a bizarre world
that had somehow day by day became, for the Vampfamily, the New Normal,
as they tried to maintain their equilibrium in this ever-changing and
removed-from-reality world. Nothing was the same anymore, and
yet, inside this, they found that everything was still there: a
little boy, his mom, and his dad.
Until now. Faced with the most incredible and heart-breaking Sophie's Choice dilemma, the Vampfamily must now choose
between having a little boy who might end up with severe cognitive
delays, affected in yet-unknown ways and to yet-unknown degrees, or
having a little boy who will surely die. In so doing, this
courageous family, representative of so many families who daily face
situations you and I can only imagine, examines destiny and choice,
realizing that there simply are no choices. There are only
actions, only love.