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  • Morning News: Nominee Messes With Obama's Head

    Another nominee for an Obama administration cabinet position has pulled out. This time, it's not about taxes or investigations, just disagreement -- a difference of opinion. Judd Gregg says he withdrew himself from consideration because he "couldn't be Judd Gregg."

    Fine, but here's the weird part: 

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  • Geek: Back Up Your Damn Hard Drives, Already!

    Last year, a mom at the library storytime was telling us how she had been recently robbed. Insurance would cover the stolen guitars, the rings, and various electronics, including her laptop. Problem was, insurance wouldn’t and couldn’t replace the biggest loss:

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  • Crappy Parent? Maybe the Kids Will Forget.

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    Some researchers now believe people can and do repress traumatic memories, and they've identified areas of the brain they think are responsible. They also hope that in the future, we may be able to help people with debilitating memories of certain events suppress the trauma. Other experts think that really emotionally charged stuff is actually harder to forget, so suppression therapy might not be so feasible after all.

    This is probably good news for horrible parents, whose offspring might have a touch of anger towards them later. But I've got a some mixed feelings about the whole thing. How do we know that suppressed memories don't continue to influence us in other ways? And while I hate the idea of folks being taken down by traumatic events in their past, I also think that our memories make us who we are, and there's some benefit to facing them and working through it.

    Hey, Dr. Phil, watch your back. I'm after your job, mo fo. 


  • Family Trips and Kids: What Moments Leave an Impression?

    Eiffel towerIt's a sure bet that whatever memories you try to provide for your kids when you travel or go sightseeing, inevitably something entirely different will end up being locked in their memories forever. And maybe it's not what you intended at all. For instance we once took a midwinter trip into the Arctic Circle in Finland, and the outstanding impression left on both kids who were there was about the sledding. Serena remembers how when riding down the hill with me, my anal-retentive let's-not-go-too-fast-braking-boots kicked up snow in her face. And Nathaniel remembers how a certain tree looked on the hill. How either of them remember much beyond how so frickin' dark it was all day long is beyond me, but what about the reindeer sleigh ride? The candles in the snow? Eating melted cheese in front of a roaring fireplace? Dripping melted lead into a bucket of water on New Year's Eve to tell your fortune for the coming year? And from Ireland, all Serena remembers from our hike through the wild, rocky pony-studded lands of Connemara was the sound of some man, coughing.  Which was repeated by both children amid peals of raucous laughter for the next five days.

    My kids are not alone in this. I guess maybe they just need to ratchet the experience down to size, and remembering the Paris department store where stuffed animals "Mole" and "White Bear" were purchased and there was a huge Winnie-the-Pooh is likely going to make a bigger impression than seeing some huge metal tower, you know?

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  • Family Project: Make a Time Capsule

    wayback machineYou know it's a slow news day when a featured story is about a family finding a 50-year-old time capsule buried in their back yard while gardening, but the more I started thinking about this, the better the idea became. When I was little, I was always fascinated by the idea of time capsules. Old stuff from 100 years ago? Bring it! How did people live back then? What did they eat, what did they read, what did they think about?

    Even more fascinating was the idea of living on into the future by leaving a piece of myself and my life for someone else to find. Ego! Hubris! Maybe, but also quite fun, like a Way Back Machine of your own: what things can you put in a box that will define you for future generations?

    Kids will totally get into this idea, and will probably take it to levels far beyond anything you can imagine, but here are a few different ways to approach the concept:

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