10 (Unscientific) Signs You Might Have a Temperamental Child

Rachael Brownell (Redsy) — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 01:09:00 GMT

When my daughter was 3, she used to throw such monumentally outrageous tantrums we dubbed them "wild animal fits" and on the advice of Brazelton, we put her in a safe room, told her we loved her and then held the door closed until the storm passed. Sometimes this would take an hour.

"She'll outgrow it" assured various doctors and family members. She is now 6 1/2 and while the tantrums happen less frequently, she is still a very highly strung child, prone to throwing fits when she doesn't get her way. She has an identical twin sister and a younger sister who are blessed with more easy-going personalities, which is either hopeful or distressing, depending on the day. If she was just born this way, what can be done?

Here are 10 signs which indicate that this isn't just a phase, more a matter of natural temperament:

1. Slamming doors at a young age - a bad preview of teen years

2. Lack of resilience - the slightest thing will set her off

3. Frequent tears - regardless of the day, there are usually several long crying jags

4. Easily slighted - if other kids do anything perceived as leaving her out, she comes unglued

5. Easy mark - related to the above, she's a desirable target for other kids because for very little teasing investment they can get a huge reaction

6. Lack of emotional control - where other kids her age seem to be able to hold themselves together, she loses is completely at the slightest provocation

7. Very sensitive - of course this is also a gift. She is highly attuned to other people, particularly if she perceives that they need help. She is very sensitive to loud noises, temperature changes, and bright light.

8. Nervous - She is very nervous at night, despite sharing a bed with her twin sister.

9. Easily disrupted - She has very excellent concentration for her age and loves to work on projects undisturbed. If she does get bothered, she loses it.

10. Sweet girl - When she is happy, it's like the sun lights up her face and the entire household can't help but smile.

Anyone else out there have temperamental children?

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10 (Unscientific) Signs You Might Have a Temperamental Child