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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="http://www.babble.com/CS/utility/FeedStylesheets/rss.xsl" media="screen"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"><channel><title>Strollerderby : ragamuffin</title><link>http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/ragamuffin/default.aspx</link><description>Tags: ragamuffin</description><dc:language>en</dc:language><generator>CommunityServer 2007.1 (Build: 20910.1126)</generator><item><title>Bucket Head or Genius: Which is Your Kid?</title><link>http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/2007/06/15/who-s-your-kiddie-parenting-different-kids-differently.aspx</link><pubDate>Fri, 15 Jun 2007 15:36:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">42a08a39-daf3-4129-8a63-8a27b879cc03:26130</guid><dc:creator>Rachael Brownell (Redsy)</dc:creator><slash:comments>3</slash:comments><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/rsscomments.aspx?PostID=26130</wfw:commentRss><comments>http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/2007/06/15/who-s-your-kiddie-parenting-different-kids-differently.aspx#comments</comments><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.babble.com/CS/photos/jun2007/picture26133.aspx" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.babble.com/CS/photos/jun2007/images/26133/309x448.aspx" align="right" border="0" height="341" hspace="4" width="235"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Parenting advice can sometimes be laughably simplistic and reductionist.&amp;nbsp; Nevertheless, obvious instructions like "don't leave your 7 month old unattended in the bathtub" serve to reassure us that all is orderly and well in the universe. &amp;nbsp; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Furthermore, with all the &lt;a href="http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/default.aspx#26063"&gt;competi-mommy confessions&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/2007/01/14/helicopter-parents-need-to-chill.aspx"&gt;helicopter parenting&lt;/a&gt; going on these days, the elegant simplicity of statements like "each child has different needs" and "&lt;a href="http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/07164/793461-114.stm"&gt;children learn at their own pace&lt;/a&gt;" should be repeated like a peaceful mantra -- an antidote to Type A overkill.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;People judge other people.&amp;nbsp; And parents judge other parents.&amp;nbsp; If we sometimes feel a little embarrassed of our &lt;a href="http://www.crankmama.com/2007/05/29/ragamuffin-pride/"&gt;ragamuffin&lt;/a&gt; bucket-head kids, it's really no wonder.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It may not be easy having kids who aren't stars of the gifted program, who lag behind other kids development. &amp;nbsp; On the other hand, there is a sort of Beta Mom pride in the unwillingness to thrust our beloved progeny into the Fast Lane.&amp;nbsp; Just yet.&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.babble.com/CS/aggbug.aspx?PostID=26130" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/competitive+parents/default.aspx">competitive parents</category><category domain="http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/helicopter+parenting/default.aspx">helicopter parenting</category><category domain="http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/momosa/default.aspx">momosa</category><category domain="http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/competi-mommy/default.aspx">competi-mommy</category><category domain="http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/ragamuffin/default.aspx">ragamuffin</category><category domain="http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/type+a/default.aspx">type a</category></item></channel></rss>