http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/2007/07/23/joint-custody-a-dad-speaks.aspxJoint custody sucks . From talking to several adults who endured various manifestations of the joint-custody dance as children, plus observing what it does to my own children, all I can say about it is that it&#39;s not easy. If the kids are lucky theyenCommunityServer 2007.1 (Build: 20910.1126)http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/2007/07/23/joint-custody-a-dad-speaks.aspx#34894Mon, 30 Jul 2007 14:44:19 GMT42a08a39-daf3-4129-8a63-8a27b879cc03:34894Elizabeth<p>&quot;Have I been holding presumptions about dads and their parenting abilities? [gulp] Sure, I know there are exceptions, but I wonder if I haven't fallen prey to some of the pervasive myths out there about dads and parenting.&quot;</p> <p>Yeah, probably. &nbsp;My parents are divorced and my dad had primary custody. &nbsp;I think he did a pretty good job.</p> <p>Just as pervasive as the myths about fathers being the primary nuturers are those about women who have children (especially daughters) but don't have primary custody of them.</p> <img src="http://www.babble.com/CS/aggbug.aspx?PostID=34894" width="1" height="1">