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10 Things You Need to Do to Really Transform Your Life

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Learn from smart people

Learn from Smart People.
No reason to reinvent the wheel. When you’re up against a challenge, look to others who’ve been in your shoes.  Read their words, study their habits, reflect upon their practices…and then incorporate what works for you in your own situation.

follow your bliss to be happy

Follow Your Bliss.
I mean this. Listen to your heart. Listen to your soul.  Often we know we’re making a mistake even as we make it, but we forge ahead because we think it’s the right thing to do. Maybe because it’s the next step most take, maybe because we think it’s the responsible thing to do, maybe because it’s what others expect of you. But don’t be afraid to follow your instincts and create your own path.

Focus on your work to live a great life

Focus Like a Laser Beam. For a time.
I love to multitask. Thrive on it, in fact. But sometimes what we need to do is concentrate on one task at a time, and give it our one hundred percent for a specific chunk of time. I find that setting aside other projects and plowing through work for, say, a full half hour bumps up my productivity.  Then? Back to juggling seven things at once.

Do something new to be happier

Dump the Regimen.
It’s easy to get into a daily routine.  Let’s face it- it’s easy to get into a weekly/monthly/yearly routine. But mixing it up once in a while helps bring some fresh perspective. Even taking a different route to work or listening to a new music station can really change up your day…which in turn can pump up your energy level and boost your creativity.

Be brave and do new things, How to have a great life

Be afraid. Be very afraid.
Well, not VERY afraid. But embrace scenarios that make you uncomfortable. Are you a musician   but don’t like performing in front of others? Find a little open mic night somewhere and JUST DO IT.  Join a gym, apply for that promotion, start that new business. Those things that you’re afraid of really are just opportunities for growth and happiness.

Mentor others to live a better life

Mentor Others.
You have, inside of you, knowledge that could help others. Enough, in fact, to be their mentor.  Sharing that with others will help you get to know your subject better, and will help open up a new world to others. Mentors often find that they learn a lot from those they help…it’s a wonderful way to forge important and meaningful relationships.

ignore the noise

Ignore the Noise.
If it’s out of your control, don’t stress over it. That’s it. Worry is wasted energy that could be better directed towards problem solving or just having fun. Practice letting go of unnecessary concerns and reveling in the goodness that surrounds you.

Less News

Ignore the News.
I love political and topical news as much as the next person, but I don’t let myself get bogged down in it. The news tends to be negative (except for that occasional feel-good human interest story they tack on at the end)…disaster, sorrow, and discord draw ratings, so that’s what the news networks give you. Gather your news from reputable sources, and don’t obsess over it.

Ignore the jerks

Ignore the Jerks.
Call them what you want: toxic people, Negative Nellies, or just plain old jerks. We all have people in our lives that drag us down, drain our energy and generally cause us strife…those people that, no matter how hard you try, just won’t be elevated out of their angry funk.  Don’t give them the power to pull you into their maelstrom.  Distance yourself from them, or cut them off entirely if needed. They aren’t healthy for you.

Get social

Socialize, socialize, socialize.
Even the most introverted of introverts benefits from quality time with friends and loved ones.  It’s all too easy to adopt a schedule that doesn’t make time for easy socializing, so make it a point to reach out to others. Call an old friend, meet a neighbor for coffee, plan an excursion with  colleagues.

focus on the good things in life

Be a Little Bit Like A PollyAnna.
Try to be less critical of others and yourself. Try to see the glass as half full, not half empty. Try to see the good in every situation.  Just TRY. Every little bit of positivity helps…it adds up to a lot more happiness.

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Alli Worthington is a digital strategist, business coach, speaker and author. Alli Worthington is also a wife, mother to five boys and one stepdaughter, as well as the founder of the online women's magazine Blissfully Domestic and the founder of the BlissDom conference. Read bio and latest posts → Read Alli's latest posts →

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3 thoughts on “10 Things You Need to Do to Really Transform Your Life

  1. theycallmecody says:

    All great ideas on how to transform yourself. I’ve learned to give myself just a moment of fear whenever I’m out of my comfort zone and then I bury the fear and step into whatever challenge I’m facing.

  2. Selena Mae says:

    Oh, I so needed this today. great way to start the morning. Life would be SO boring without challenge anyways.

  3. daniellesmith says:

    Focusing on the good is, by far, my favorite. It is definitely my goal every single day. My challenge, as you know, is blocking out the jerks :)

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