20 Not-Obvious Photos Every Parent Should Take
By Ellen Seidman |
I have an excellent source of Mommy crack. I can get it right off my computer, actually. It’s known as The Bazillion Snapshots I’ve Taken Of My Kids. Whenever I’m feeling burned out, I browse and get a bliss lift.
My children are 9 and 7. When they were little, I diligently ordered prints, arranged photo albums and made framed collages to hang on the walls—first year! Summer fun! But life took over and that fell off. Now my main fix is my iPhoto album, and even the countless photos it contains sometimes don’t feel like enough.
My husband teases me about the way I snap 50 shots of any given moment, but every photo I take of the kids—blurry, crooked, awkward—ends up being precious. The photos of big-deal events definitely stand out: holidays, birthday parties, first day of preschool, first tooth lost, school plays, violin recitals. It’s the everyday photos, though, that have turned out to be my all-time favorites. Snapshots that have captured the kids’ personalities, curiosity, exuberance and innocence, and let me worship at the altar of their cuteness again and again.
These 20 photos are especially memorable to me, the kind worth having in every photo album.

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Your child, dressed in a sailor suit
If nobody bought one for your baby boy, get one. Now. It's the clothing equivalent of Prozac, and you will not be able to save it for special occasions. No, you will regularly deck out your tot in it and take him for a walk, just because.
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Your child, eating ice-cream
This is exactly what bliss looks like.
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Your kids, doing errands with you
Right now, you want to tear your hair out when they whine "I waaaaaant that!" but someday you will appreciate how utterly adorable they looked in the shopping cart.
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Your child, checking out her chubby bits
If there is one time in life when a pot belly is welcome, it's on a three-year-old.
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Your child, seated in a favorite spot
Every fall, we take pictures of the kids on our front stoop. It's a great way to track how they grow from year to year, and a good excuse for buying a ridiculous amount of mums.
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Your child, caught mid-sentence
It captures your child's personality, and may later prove comforting when your child-turned-teen pretends you don't exist.
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Your child, kissing someone new
The sweetness is impossible to replicate; the Disney Cruise, optional.
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Your child, crying
Yes, this too will someday be precious to you, even if your child thinks you're Satan for whipping out your camera as she sobs her heart out.
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Your kids, dressed in costume...
...just because. I ache for those days. (Shelling out $49 for an Ariel mermaid get-up: not so much.)
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Your child, getting down and dirty
In actual dirt, sand, mud, whatever they're stooping or rolling around in.
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Your child, sleeping
Is there anything more angelic? Nope. (Note: May also come in handy for tracing the roots of your child's orthodontia needs.)
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Your child, jumping
Very soon she will not listen if you ask "Could you jump? Wait, do it again! OK, almost got it, one more time!" as you indulge your inner pro photographer. So go on, ask.
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Your child, with wet lashes
Mascara ads have nothing on your little darling's lashes when they're wet. Shoot down from above.
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Baby butt!
Even better: baby butt in a wading pool.
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Your child, deep in thought
I snapped this during my son's first Little League game. He's not one for commotion, so he was wary about stepping out onto the field. I got the money shot of him hitting the ball—but I love this photo because it reminds me of what it took to score that success.
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Your child, sitting somewhere she shouldn't be
Here's my daughter hanging on our kitchen table, making like Martha Stewart. I've also got shots of her in the laundry basket, in the wire bin in the living room where we keep magazines and snuggled up on a kitty pad. Your kids will only be this size once; remember it.
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Your child and her body double
I've always loved that my daughter and husband both have knees that go inward, and I finally got the shot on a recent vacation.
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Your child, with pumpkins
Delicious-ness guaranteed to last for all eternity. Seriously, you just can't mess up a pumpkin shot.
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Your kids, loving each other up
You've gotta be quick to capture a moment when they're not fighting but take heart, it is humanly possible.
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Your child, playing
You will never, ever have enough shots of your child at play. Don't hold back.
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I love this! I’ve got thousands and thousands of photos of Ash — as soon as he was home from the NICU I tried to get at least one photo of him a day, since even still, for his first few years, we never knew what day might be his last….but usually, like you, I’m taking 10-100 shots every time I can find the slightest excuse to whip out my camera, just in case I can capture something I wouldn’t have, otherwise. I try to keep my snap-happiness from interfering with other kinds of participation in his life, granted, but aside from that…
Well, thank goodness I had my child in the age of digital photography, let’s put it that way! The periods when our digi-cam was off for repair are easily marked by the sad shortage of photos I can still look back and bemoan missing.
Love it! My hubby teases me for all the pictures I take (1,500 in the 8mos since our son was born) but I know they will serve a purpose one day! Whether it’s comforting me when I’m stressed or embarrassing Damian once he’s all grown up. I am definitely a photo snapping fool. I can’t wait for all the fun summer pictures we can get.
We calculated I took more than 10,000 pictures of my three year-old before she turned one. 10,000. In one year. Good grief.
Rhiannon, I felt the same about photographing Max as a baby. “Snap-happiness” is my new favorite phrase, although I definitely fit Ali’s “photo-snapping fool” description! :) And Jodi, even though I’ve never counted, I have a feeling I’m in the 10000 ballpark too. Wahoo!
LOVE this post, Ben makes fun of me when I take a pic of him and Scar doing something and he goes back through and half way through the pix, I hear “when did you TAKE all these pictures?!” ROFL mama can snap that digi camera button fast! Can I just say though, I love the grocery cart pic, ya know, how you’re trying to remember how sweet and cute they in the that grocery cart….the cart full of cleaning supplies for when they’re NOT being cute and sweet, that is:P lmao sorry, couldn’t help but notice it;P
Totally agree! I do believe I have most of these shots, and laughed out loud at the “sailor suit” photo, as I have each of my 4 sons in sailor suits as infants/toddlers. I think another “mandatory” shot is sleeping/snuggled with Daddy or a Grandparent, and also a few shots of them in their “Sunday best”, hair slicked into place, clean shiny face, etc!
wonderful! i’ve done a few of these, but i have a lot left to do! thanks for the inspiration! http://www.mamainstyle.com
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Sleeping pictures are the best! No matter how overly-energetic and crazy they are during their waking hours, all kids look like little angels when they’re asleep.