So many times we’re ready to put the blame on our spouses. If you ask someone what bothers them about their husband or wife then they can probably go through a laundry list of items. He leaves his clothes all over the floor; he doesn’t communicate his feelings enough. She spends too much time with her girlfriends; she’s always trying to control me. They know everything negative about their spouse but how do you know if you’re a bad spouse yourself?
If you ask that same person what they would change about themselves, in their relationship, I can guarantee you won’t get as many answers. So many relationships and marriages fail because one party never sees their own fault in the situation. Since this is the case, we decided to discuss it in this week’s version of the Husband Wife Life Web Series.
In this week’s video we offer a few insights on what makes a bad spouse, as well as giving you things to work on to build a stronger relationship.
We also answer a brand new question of the week. This week’s question is:
How is it possible after a breakup to still continuously think about the ex? Will it stop? Will the thought of reuniting ever go away?
We definitely have some strong opinions on this question. I’ve always been one to think, that you could easily be blocking the blessing of a new partner by not letting go of your old one. If there is no future in the relationship then you just may be wasting your time if marriage is your goal. In most cases, your ex is your ex for a reason, so just don’t forget that. We had more to say on the topic so make sure you view the video.
After you check out the video let us know what you think about the topic and the question in the comment section below.