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Megan Jordan parents and writes by the same theory: the beauty is in the threadbare. "Relish the Velveteen. Revel in the Threadbare." underscores her personal blog, Velveteen Mind. Mother to three in Gulfport, Mississippi, Megan infuses her writing with depth as rich as bayou mud and humor bold as blackened shrimp.

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When Is Summer Vacation for Grown-Ups?

By Megan Jordan |

The last day of school has arrived. Summer vacation starts next week.

Wait. Right there.

Stop and identify exactly how you felt when you read that notice. Did your heart lighten? Or did your stomach drop? A little of both?

Let's jump in the sprinkler!My heart absolutely lightened. And then my stomach dropped.

We are standing at the edge of a water sprinkler, glorious sun warming our skin, lighting up the water droplets as they fly through the air, and all I can think is that I have work to do. I want to jump right in (yes! let’s do it!) but then I’d have to dry off and get dressed all over again and, just ugh.

I love summer at home with my kids. I realize that not all parents feel this way. I’m not, then, one of those parents that dread the kids being home. We do all we can to embrace every day off, deliberately spinning moments into memories lest the entire summer slip away. That’s the thing – if I didn’t stop myself and appreciate the gift of time we’ve been handed, the entire summer would evaporate with nothing but lots of hours on the couch to show for it.

It’s so easy to “we should do that tomorrow”-away our summers. A cool idea strikes us (the zoo! the beach! check out that new trail!) and we say, “We should do that tomorrow. I’d love to run out today but I just need to finish this one thing…” until we’ve wiled away the weeks with “we should do’s” and suddenly it’s August and Wal-Mart is full of school supplies again.

Talk about stomach dropping. That moment when you walk into the store and find yourself facing a wall of crayons and rulers and notebooks? We must fend off that “When did it become back-to-school time again?!” for as long as possible.

But back to that initial stomach drop in those first two lines. Yeah. The problem is that as much as I want to fill our summer with fun doings, I still have work to complete. Deadlines don’t take a summer break. Most of us don’t.

So how do we find the happy in-between? How do we remain productive while still enjoying a true summer that includes spontaneous outings with our kids on Wednesdays? Because, new rule, summer outings don’t count on Saturdays and Sundays.

I want to devour our summer days with the kids like a giant cherry pie on the fourth of July and then roll onto my back with a moan of satisfaction that only a day of overindulging in the sun can deliver. I want to feel the exhaustion of family fun without the tension in my neck of summer-less work. And I’d also like to pay my bills.

Heart lightened. Stomach dropped. Oh blech. This being a grown-up thing is complicated.

Are you excited for the kids to get out of school? A little stressed?
How do you strike the summer balance? Share your tips in the comments below and I may include them in an upcoming post wherein I attack this summer conundrum with a toolbox of tricks you help me fill!

 

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Spinning Moments Into Memories
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Megan Jordan parents and writes by the same theory: the beauty is in the threadbare. "Relish the Velveteen. Revel in the Threadbare." underscores her personal blog, Velveteen Mind. Mother to three in Gulfport, Mississippi, Megan infuses her writing with depth as rich as bayou mud and humor bold as blackened shrimp. Read bio and latest posts → Read Megan's latest posts →

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3 thoughts on “When Is Summer Vacation for Grown-Ups?

  1. Katherine @ Postpartum Progress says:

    Thank you for this. I love the idea of sleeping in and cuddling with my babies, and taking off on adventures every so often this summer, but I’m also terrified about how I’m going to get all of my work done. I have NO idea how to strike the balance, so I’ll be keeping a keen eye out for your follow up post.

  2. jennyonthespot says:

    I don’t know. I’m hyperventilating. You know what helps, and not that I want other moms to feel this tug… but it is so comforting to know I am not alone. It’s normal… I am not a lousy mom. I am in the trenches with great women… great mothers.

  3. Korinthia Klein says:

    I love summer vacation. My kids are good at entertaining themselves and we just set the lazy bar pretty low. My husband and I give each other alternate days with being in charge of the kids and the house so that way we get our own work done and still get to just hang out. If we get to the zoo, fine, if not, it’s all good. We sign up for nothing, we run after the ice cream truck, and the kids gather for neighborhood recess in the field behind our house one evening a week. Structured days have their place but I’m looking forward to the free for all and nights with fireflies.
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