Most women who have had a child or are pregnant know that breast milk has more benefits to both you and your baby than formula does. I breastfed my oldest daughter, Harlan, until she was one and will continue to breastfeed Avery for as long as I feel is best.
Mayor Bloomberg recently decided to “hide” formula in hospitals as a part of his Latch on NYC campaign. As much as I appreciate Mayor Bloomberg for his efforts to educate our city on the benefits of breastfeeding, his decision to lock away formula in order to encourage moms to breastfeed isn’t doing any justice for the breastfeeding community. In essence, he is telling mother’s what to do with their new child. In a way he is stripping away their right to choose how they feed their baby.
The issue on Mayor Bloomberg’s decision isn’t about breastfeeding, the issue is about choice.
By locking away formula from moms the city government is undermining the role of doctors and parents. Ultimately, if a mother who is educated on the benefits of breastfeeding still decides to feed her baby formula, that is her choice.
If a mother asks for formula in the hospital, that is not the time to educate her on the benefits of breastfeeding. I remember being so emotional after having both of my children. I was so nervous about breastfeeding with Harlan. I had all sorts of questions and was anxious to see how it would go. Thankfully, she latched on right away and was a nursing champ. If she didn’t and I had to supplement formula and was given a lecture beforehand by nurses on why I should continue to try, I probably would have had a breakdown.
Breastfeeding isn’t for everyone. I have several friends who tried and tried to nurse their children. They visited lactation consultants, tried supplements to help increase their milk flow, but in the end, it just didn’t work for them. Rather than fighting about it, we should support them.
We don’t need to feel inadequate as mothers because of the decisions we make on how to feed our child. Ultimately the decision is yours, don’t let the government make it for you. Choose what is best for you and best for your child.
I had the chance to speak out on this issue this morning on Pix 11 Morning News with fellow Babble contributor Catherine Connors. Check out our views on this issue.
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