Life Goals, Then + Now: How Motherhood Changes ThingsCasi Densmore-Koon
I’ve been a mother for a decade now. Don’t I sound old? Well, I started young and it has worked out in so many ways. I feel like it was the path given to me for a reason and I am blessed with so much. However, things didn’t always go as planned. I never thought that I would start my family so young. I never knew I would be writing for Babble but wow, am I glad that was in the plan for me. I never imagined having five kids. If you’d asked me about kids 11 years ago, I would have been shocked at the thought of anyone wanting five kids. But that is the thing about motherhood — it changes you, for the better.The other day when I was laid up from my surgery and I was thinking back over all my life goals before I was a mom. And I thought about how things have changed. How I never imagined myself where I am now. I never imagined being a writer even though I always loved it. I never imagined working from home. I never ever imagined I would marry young and in ten years have five children. But it’s life. I am blessed with the ups and downs and the roller coaster rides it has thrown at me. I thought it would be fun to look back over just how my life goals have changed — then and now — and how motherhood really does change plans.
Before kids — I wanted to move to California, and have a cute little bungalow over looking Malibu. Now — I would probably be a paranoid mess to have water in my back yard. I am to scared with the swimming pools we bring out over the summer. So I’ve settled with the nice suburbia neighborhood.
Before kids — My Sunday goal was to rest + refresh myself before the next week. This consisted of watching E! All day, in my pajamas. Now — I’m lucky to be able to sit on Sundays! Now my goal is making sure everything for the week is together for school, dinner for the week, and I wish I had time to refresh!
Before kids — I wanted to be a fashion designer. The runway show was planned in my head for years, the never-ending sketches, the fashion magazines I would die for every month. It was all about fashion and getting a job in the field. Now — I’ve created my own successful business and I still have some goals but, for now, my littles wardrobe is the fashion I look forward too. And a new pair of heels – because hey – the park is our runway these days! And who says I can’t wear heels on a walk.
Before kids — I didn’t want kids. My goal was to focus on my career and drive around in my BMW coupe. Looks like I settled for a mini-van. Now — my goal everyday is to make it through the day without temper tantrums, sibling rivalry, and getting a chance to put on make-up and making sure I don’t forget to make anyone’s lunch. Or run out of coffee.
How has being a Mom changed your life goals?
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