The first few months of a baby’s life give the whole family a new appreciation for the word “chaos.” It’s amazing how such a tiny person with such elemental needs — food, sleep, love — can turn an entire household upside down. Whether it’s all night fuss-fests, screaming through car rides, or marathon nursing sessions that immobilize mom for hours, a baby can seize control of any situation and render it 180 degrees different than it was before.
Moms tend to take the brunt of Hurricane Baby, especially if they’re nursing and, in one fell swoop, find themselves acting as 24-hour diner for a demanding little customer. But even bottle feeding moms end up being the front line of baby care — and the front line of baby stress.
Not to say that caring for a baby is all trouble and strife, far from it. But in my experience, at least, being with a little baby is disorienting and confusing in addition to being an emotional high unlike any other I’ve ever felt. I love my kids with the power of 1,000 suns but trying to interpret and calm the cries of a newborn left me drained and helpless.
If you’re the partner of the mom of a newborn, remember that she needs care as well as the baby. Learning to be a mom to a new little person is not easy and she’ll need a few boosts along the way. Take a few moments to do things for her to make her feel special and appreciated.
Here are some tips for partners of new mothers:
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