Previous Post Next Post

Food

Brought to you by

Vegetarian Children: How to raise healthy kids with a vegetarian diet

How to raise healthy kids with a vegetarian diet.

By Sierra Black |

When my kids were babies, I used to hold them in my arms and nuzzle their tummies and say, “I made you out of spinach and tofu and ice cream!” When they were toddlers, we started playing, “This little piggy:” and made up a different food each time. It was never “this little piggy had roast beef.” My kids wouldn’t know what that was.

We’re all vegetarians. None of the kids has ever eaten meat. Yesterday, my little one pointed at the golden arches of America’s favorite fast food hamburger joint and asked, “What letter is that?”

“That is an M,” her sister answered confidently. “It belongs to that very famous gas station.”

For me, the decision to raise vegetarian kids was an easy one. I’ve been a vegetarian my whole life, and my husband hasn’t eaten meat in over 10 years. Of course we feed our kids the foods we love. Plus, I’ve never shopped for meat and never cooked it. I wouldn’t know the first thing about including meat options in our menu plan.

While I gave little thought to raising our kids as vegetarians, plenty of other people have thought about it. Everyone from curious relatives to nosy strangers has asked me why I decided to raise my kids this way.

But vegetarian families aren’t that unusual; according to a study cited by the Huffington Post last year, one in 200 kids are vegetarian. Even though it’s increasingly commonplace, raising vegetarian children still raises questions.

Here are the top four questions I get asked:

1. How do your kids get proper nutrition? Won’t they be malnourished?

My kids get nutrition from eating food. There are literally dozens of cookbooks out there that will teach you how to feed your kids a proper vegetarian diet, to get the right balance of micronutrients and amino acids. The truth is, though, plants are rich in nearly all these nutrients. A steady diet of plentiful, diverse healthy food will be enough for your kids. We don’t spend a lot of time balancing proteins or matching amino acids in our house. We just eat a lot of good food. It works.

2. Shouldn’t the kids get to choose if they’re vegetarian? When are you going to let them choose for themselves?

Does your three-year-old get to choose her own diet? I didn’t think so. My kids eat what I prepare for them, which means no meat. Since they are my children, they get to grow up with my default setting until they’re old enough to make an informed decision to change it. Usually I quip that my kids will be allowed to eat meat when they are old enough to cook it.

3. Don’t your kids feel weird, being so different from their friends?

They’re not so different. At school, they eat a packed lunch just like everyone else. They might have slightly different stuff in their Hello Kitty lunchboxes, but they’re the same in that they eat food from their homes.

Since we hang out with a pretty crunchy crowd of hippie families that share our values, at home or at playdates, my kids are often with other vegetarian children. They like telling people that they’re vegetarians, and they’ve never expressed feeling left out because other kids were eating meat and they were not.

4. So, what do your kids eat?

Probably a lot of the same things your kids eat. Today, I sent them off to summer camp with carrot sticks, cheese sticks, a hard-boiled egg, a bagel and some apple slices. Sure, we eat more “hippie food” than the average household – the girls are masters of lentil soup, tofu stir fry and burritos – but essentially they eat a lot of classic kid food, just adapted slightly to leave out the meat and bring in more plant-based protein.

If these questions don’t intimidate you, and you’re interested in getting started with a vegetarian diet for your family, I wholeheartedly recommend Molly Katzen’s Moosewood cookbooks. They are classics of healthy, simple, delicious vegetarian cuisine. She has also published several cookbooks for kids, starting with Pretend Soup, which are full of fun pictorial recipes for snacks, desserts and dinners. My daughter got one for her third birthday, and it’s been a staple in our kitchen ever since.

Of course, you’ll want to check in with your pediatrician first before changing your family’s diet. Going veg is great for the planet and good for most people’s health, but a few people are prone to anemia or have other health conditions that make it a bad idea. Your doctor may want to run a few blood tests to make sure you’re in good health to start.

It’s also a good idea to change your diet slowly. If you’ve been eating meat, phase it out of your diet gradually. A low-meat diet is still better for the planet than the average American one. If you decide in a flurry of green guilt to turn your whole family vegan overnight, you’ll probably all end up hungry, irritable and sneaking cheeseburgers before long.

It takes time to create new habits. Try switching first to vegetarian breakfasts (my kids love yogurt with granola and nuts, fried eggs, and sweet potato pancakes). Next you can switch the meat out of their lunches. Once everyone’s adapted to eating meat more rarely, pick up some vegetarian cookbooks and start experimenting with new recipes for family dinners.

You might not ever decide to be fully vegetarian, but eating more meatless meals will be good for you, your kids and the earth.

More on Babble

About Sierra Black

sierra

Sierra Black

Sierra Black lives, writes and raises her kids in the Boston area. She loves irreverence, hates housework and wants to be a writer and mom when she grows up. Read bio and latest posts → Read Sierra's latest posts →

« Go back to Food

Use a Facebook account to add a comment, subject to Facebook's Terms of Service and Privacy Policy. Your Facebook name, profile photo and other personal information you make public on Facebook (e.g., school, work, current city, age) will appear with your comment. Comments, together with personal information accompanying them, may be used on Babble.com and other Babble media platforms. Learn More.

13 thoughts on “Vegetarian Children: How to raise healthy kids with a vegetarian diet

  1. ChiLaura says:

    Thanks for the article and the cookbook recommendation. I was going to ask for one! =) Curious: Do your kids eat many nuts and peanuts for protein? My eldest is allergic to peanuts and many tree nuts (not to almonds, luckily), which is one thing that holds me back from a veg diet, along with my fear of soy overload. And because of his allergies, I try to restrict and nearly eliminate dairy from his diet. However, we are vegan at least 2x/wk and for many periods throughout the year for religious reasons, so this concept isn’t totally alien.

  2. lisaliberty says:

    ChiLaura — I’m raising a vegetarian son, and for awhile we did not give him nuts either. Beans are extremely healthy and make a complete protein when paired with a grain. We did rice and beans, beans and polenta, beans and corn…

  3. 2enjoylife8 says:

    I’m not a vegetarian, but I hated meat as a kid. My daughter doesn’t like to eat a lot of meat either. We love freshly cooked beans and seafood. It seems perhaps many children may not eat much meat and all parents might do well to find out about getting nutrition and protein in other forms rather than meat. I’m going to check out Molly Katzen’s cookbooks. Thanks!

  4. yesplease says:

    It’s great that you and your children are vegetarians. It’s great that some people raise their kids vegan. It’s great that some people raise their kids as omnivores. You can raise healthy, happy kids on all of these diets. No need for anyone to feel guilty. Or pretend that vegan/veg kids are being injured in some way. Or pretend that roast beef and McDonalds don’t exist. Different things work for different people (and not just where food is concerned). Personally, the vegans I know are much more likely to make rude comments about my family’s meal choices than I ever am about theirs. It’s important for me to raise kids that respect the earth and respect other people. Even those that do things differently than we might.

  5. Jenna Atchison ? says:

    With life threatening food allergies and diabetes among young children on the rise, parents are now seeking alternatives and turning away from the standard American diet. Its refreshing to see sites, like Babble, recognize the needs of their readers. Many parents have taken to the internet to find resources to help create a diverse repertoire of healthy, vegan/vegetarian and allergy elimination recipes. Some parents have a difficult time with others in their neighborhood (or family) that may not be accepting to this ‘new diet’ parents are finding online communities of like-minded people who have been successful at raising vegan/vegetarian children. Thank you for bringing further awareness to the full-fledged modern veggie family!
    -Jenna, Editor http://www.happylittlevegans.com

  6. TheBossofYou says:

    This isn’t at all helpful for those who have an extremely picky child. You’re really just patting yourself on the back. I think it’s nice that Babble gives you space for that

  7. Cait says:

    Not particularly useful, but okay, thanks for sharing. I know lots and lots of vegetarian and/or vegan families, of which we are one. You’d do well to provide more practical information than you have here to convince non-veg families to got veg.

  8. Erin says:

    These are all questions I get asked too. This was helpful to me. Some people need to know this stuff.

  9. Betsy says:

    When did eggs become veggies?

  10. Tim says:

    Hippies, trying to tell people how to live

  11. LooLoosMommy says:

    Good article, maybe the title is a bit misleading though. I have begun to phase meat out of my family’s diets. We only eat meat about once a week now, which is a vast improvement. Thanks for the cook book suggestions!

  12. solidarity says:

    Just wanted to thank you for this very important post. I’m alternate between vegetarian and vegan, being lactose intolerant and against animal cruelty. Being vegetarian is an awesome message to send your children. It’s a little more difficult, but is totally worth it. I look forward to more articles. Thanks!

  13. Imanut says:

    Re: sweet potato pancakes
    Recipe or they don’t exist
    ;)

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *.

Previous Post Next Post