Mary J Blige is a cool chick. She makes great music and is a philanthropist and was recently honored at the New Yorkers For Children Fall Gala for said philanthropy.
She talked about how she could never adopt, because she would be a “poor parent”. SHe greatly admires adoptive mothers like Angelina and Madonna, but just couldn’t be as magnanimous as they are. She has a hard enough time fitting quality time with her husbands children as it is.
“I don’t think I’ll do foster care or adopt, to be quite honest. I barely have time for my own children. To adopt more children and not have time for them, that (would be) poor parenting on my (part).”
At least she realizes that about herself. There are few things worse than doing something because it’s perceived as a popular thing to do.
I think she always has great hair, maybe that’s where some of her time goes. It always looks so effortless, but I know it takes more than the five minutes I spend on my own.