What's the point of taking great lengths to improve and enhance our appearance if we're just going to advertise the fact that we've had them in the first place? Well -- let's consider for a moment, the lunch date when I found out that three of my closest girlfriends had all been getting Botox for years and not one had even so much as mentioned it once. I didn't feel betrayed or lied to when I found out, and I didn't think they looked any less amazing. But I did feel less insane 0ver the fact that I had become convinced I was aging much faster than many of my contemporaries. I wasn't! It was just that everyone else's Botox was making me look old!