After you’ve been married for a few years, you may start to notice that your wife doesn’t look at you the way she once did. Sure you may have gained a few pounds and lost a little hair, but you you’ve still got it. However, your wife seems to be less interested in it and more interested in watching Downton Abbey.
Don’t fret. You have to power to shift her focus from British aristocrats back to you by becoming that ravishing hunk who swept her off her feet in the first place.
If you do these 7 things, you can bring sexy back and make your wife swoon.
7 Ways to Make Your Wife Swoon 1 of 9
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Improve your grooming habits 2 of 9
Remember those days when you used to boast about going 3 days without showering? Stop doing that. Showering is good and your wife will appreciate it if you do it daily. Also, keep your hair and nails trimmed and neat. Use lip balm. Whiten your teeth if needed. Moisturize. And keep mints handy. Finally, find a cologne that your wife loves and wear it on special occasions.
Get back into shape 3 of 9
After I got married, I gained 25 pounds. My wife never complained about my extra girth, but I realized that I needed to lose some weight. After I started working out and my flab melted away, my wife showered me with compliments and couldn't resist touching my newly toned body parts. Her attention motivated me to maintain my fitness routine. If you've allowed yourself to pack on a few extra pounds, it's not too late to get back in shape. Start slowly with an activity that you love and soon you will start to notice a difference in your stamina and the way your clothes fit. More importantly, your wife take a renewed interested in how you look.
Update your wardrobe 4 of 9
It's great that your high school football jersey still fits, but it's probably time to retire it along with your old, cut-off shorts. You don't have to turn into a GQ model, but you should purchase a few staples that will freshen your wardrobe. A pair of good-fitting jeans, a crisp white shirt, a navy blazer, a tailored suit, some khakis, a couple of paris of shoes (dressy and casual) and some classy accessories (watch, tie, sunglasses) are all you need to add a dash of flair that will make your wife look twice.
Be more considerate 5 of 9
After a few years of marriage, it's easy to take your wife for granted. You can stop this downward spiral by taking the time to show her some consideration. Compliment her. Help out around the house. Take the kids out so she can have some time alone. Let her know how much you love and appreciate her. Your words and actions have the power to make your wife fall in love with you all over again.
Show your vulnerable side 6 of 9
People mistake vulnerability for weakness. The opposite is true. Vulnerability is strength. It takes incredible courage to reveal your innermost thoughts, doubts, and fears. When you share these things with your wife, you build a strong connection that draws you closer together. Your wife will be honored that you trusted her enough to display your vulnerable side.
Hone your sense of humor 7 of 9
Early in our relationship, my wife told me that one of the things that attracted her to me was my wry, sense of humor. Since that moment, I've been honing my comedic chops. You don't have to be Louis C.K. or Chris Rock to make your wife laugh. All you need to do is find the humor in everyday events. Learning to laugh at yourself is a plus. A man with a sense of humor shows that he doesn't take himself too seriously.
Display confiidence 8 of 9
Confidence is an attractive trait. But don't confuse it with arrogance. Confidence is belief in yourself and your abilities. Arrogance is an attitude of superiority manifested in an overbearing manner. Your wife will respond to your confidence with admiration and respect. However, if you're arrogant, you will be rebuffed.
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