A press release for this book just came across my desk and I spit coffee out of my nose. The title? A Son is a Son Till He Gets a Wife: How Toxic Daughters-in-Law Destroy Families. I wonder if my MIL would want a copy of this book? I hope not. Do you think yours would? According to the author, nasty daughters-in-law are destroying families at an alarming rate. Learn more about it after the jump, and let us know what you think of this contribution to the world’s literary canon in the comments.
Here’s the scoop:
The TV stereotype is always the mother-in-law, for whom no woman will ever be as good to him as she is. Doris Roberts on Everybody Loves Raymond embodied that image for 8 years on TV – the grasping, sweet-to-your-face, rude-behind-your-back mother-in-law who only wants her son to be happy, as long as she’s the one behind it.
But what if things were the other way around? What happens when it’s the wife, and not the mother-in-law, that tries to drive a wedge between a man and his mother? That’s what happened to Anne Killinger, author of A Son is a Son Till He Gets a Wife: How Toxic Daughters-in-Law Destroy Families.
“In a world where mothers-in-law are frequently made the butt of bad jokes, many people assume that they are the ones that make life unbearable for their daughters-in-law,” Killinger said. “I contend that it is often the other way around, that many daughters-in-law today are selfish, possessive, and narcissistic, and will not rest until they have divorced their husbands from the parents who raised them. It’s a deceptively gradual process, and half the time, you don’t even realize it has happened until it’s too late. It starts with her taking phone calls for the family, or the canceling of trips to visit family. Soon, phone calls go unreturned, and finally you realize that your son is no longer your son. He’s just some other woman’s husband.”
From the emails Killinger receives from her readers and the discussions she has had with others about the topic, she believes the problem is more widespread than the stereotype would lead people to believe.
Can’t wait to hear what you have to say about this one! If your toxic daughter in law is destroying your family and you think this book can help, scoop it up on amazon for $21.95.