Is there anything that matters more to little girl than what her mother thinks of her? Maybe what her mother says to her.
A mother is a little girl’s whole world so when she says something negative, the girl takes it to heart (and often keeps it in her psyche for years to come). As teens whose feelings are magnified times a thousand, one demoralizing comment can make her see herself in a terrible light which often leads to low self esteem.
Even as adults, we don’t want to hear our mothers questioning our judgements in a condescending way. Yes, we do want their advice, but not their harsh criticism.
Luckily, it seems like many of us have surpassed the old fashioned way of raising girls, even though that is exactly how many of us were raised. Yet, there are many moms who still let some things slip without even realizing the damage they are doing.
With that in mind, here are 10 things a mother should never say to her daughter:
Also, check out 10 Things A Father Needs To Tell His Daughter
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