It happens to everybody, male or female, married or single. Every once in a while, you go through a sexual dry spell. Whether it’s because you’ve just had a baby and you’re tired as all get out or you just went through a traumatic breakup, experiencing a dry spell can be a huge blow to your ego and leave you feeling tense. You may think, “Oh God, I’m not good enough, I’m not pretty enough, I’m too broken, no one likes me.” You may be abstaining on purpose to give yourself some “me” time before getting into another relationship. Either way, if you’re not careful, you can lose the self-esteem and energy boost that having a healthy sex life provides.
Here are some small things you can do during a dry spell that’ll help you feel sexy until it’s time to get back in the game:
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