25 New Year’s Resolutions Every Parent Should Make
Which one will you pick?
by Michelle Horton
December 30, 2009
We’re on the cusp of a new decade, a time for self-reflection and fresh starts. In case you’re having trouble thinking of a resolution or two, we’ve compiled 25 for every parent to ponder as we head into 2010. Happy New Year! – Michelle Horton
Teach your kids money management skills.
It’s never too early to learn the meaning of a dollar, especially after the gimme-gimme holiday season simmers down. Here, Anton Simunovic, founder of threejars.com, shares effective ways to use an allowance to teach kids self-reliance and responsibility.
Read with your children. For fun.
In our competitive culture, where we flash card our children and stress about preschool admissions, many parents consider reading with their kid to be an educational chore. But whatever happened to reading for enjoyment, life lessons or bright, silly pictures? This year, let’s focus on our child’s excitement, not their reading level.
Show appreciation for our parents.
We may be parents now, fussing over our children’s tiny feet, putting them on a school bus and sending them out into the world; but once upon a time, we were the kids being fussed over, being put on a school bus, being sent out into the world. For many, it takes having a child to finally appreciate what it means to have a parent. It’s time to show them the love.
Do more home cooking.
There’s something about the waft of simmering garlic and roasting chicken that congregates a family faster than Christmas morning, but we understand cooking can be intimidating. Whether you’re more comfortable with the old-school charm of cookbooks or the modern convenience of helpful iPhone apps, Babble’s all about making cooking accessible for everyone. (And check out Nibblers for family memory-making inspiration!)
Don’t beat yourself up over organics.
The incessant message that organic equals health isn’t likely to let up and unfortunately, neither is the hefty price tag for organic foods. To keep your family and bank account healthy, follow this shopping guide. And when the funds won’t allow, eh, organic shmorganic. There are more important things to worry about.
Go on, let it out.
Yes, we’re big bad parents, strong and all knowing, but we’re not superheroes. We’re all just trying to get from point A to point B with minimal tears, tantrums and ouchies. With all of the balls we have in the air, always putting on a brave face is a waste of energy (we’re looking at you, too, Dads!). Let’s take a cue from our kids on this one and every once in awhile allow ourselves a good cry.
Give your home a green makeover.
Not all of us have the energy, time or money to do a complete green overhaul, but that doesn’t mean we should throw in the plastic and preservative-ridden towel. Here are some simple steps we can take to create a better world for our kiddos.
We get it. One minute the place is in order, the next we’re tripping over toys and climbing over laundry baskets. Kids have an uncanny way of tearing through a house, leaving us on constant pick-up duty. Well, no more. Here, a professional organizer offers tips on how to clean up the mess.
…but let the dishes pile up every now and then.
Being tidy is one thing, but expecting your house to look immaculate 24-7 is a pipe dream. Take some advice from this writer who insists there are better ways to spend our lack-of-time than scrubbing floors.
It’s the small things that matter.
Not every child has a parent with a PhD – or even a working memory of high school calculus – but it doesn’t make us lesser parents. It’s the simple lessons that will ultimately stick with our children, like the ones in this Do-It-Myself Guide. Set aside some time to teach them things you do know – then watch your tot (or teen) stare up (or down) in amazement.
Stop worrying about every. little. thing.
Pick your mental battles. We have enough on our minds without stressing about whether the TV is causing irreversible damage or the babysitter is replacing Mommy. If you feel your heart racing or your breath catching, step back and assess how trivial the issue is. Need help? We’ve got you.
Stop judging other parents.
We’re all on the same team, yet we still snicker, sneer and judge one another. Don’t we have enough to worry about without micromanaging the child rearing of others or caring what the other bus stop moms will think? Let’s start the new decade by supporting, helping and encouraging our fellow monster-checking, nose-wiping parents.