Percy Jackson Is My Therapist

Why YA fiction is a great stress reliever for moms

“When I was ten, I read fairy tales in secret and would have been ashamed if I had been found doing so. Now that I am fifty I read them openly. When I became a man I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up.” – C.S. Lewis

On New Year’s Eve, 2009, my four-year-old was diagnosed with epilepsy.

After the ambulance ride, the day in the ER and hearing the words “seizure disorder,” our family was sent home with what felt like a cement block pulling us into despair. It was enough to have watched our little girl collapse, to see her glazed eyes and urine-soaked pajamas, to administer the rectal injection and watch her go into respiratory distress. It was enough. I couldn’t bear one second more.

So, when my husband carried our little girl to bed, I found relief reading Percy Jackson and the Olympians – all five books. I burrowed under my comforter, checked out of my life and checked into another world altogether.

Reading Percy worked wonders for me. It didn’t take but a few paragraphs to forget about the seizures and imagine I was in the world of Percy Jackson, Greek gods and terrorizing monsters.

I read a book every two days. By the time I closed the last book in the series, the evil Titans were defeated, Percy found romance and things were quiet at Camp Half-Blood. Feeling strong and hopeful for good prevailing over evil, I changed out of my sweatpants, put on jeans and a T-shirt and got out of bed.

I’m not the only one who turns to young-adult fiction for escape and therapy. In 2009, YA sales were up 30.7 percent despite adult hardcover sales falling 17.8 percent. Why? Because adult readers like me love YA books for the stress relief, the captivating stories and heroes, the real-life issues, and the ease and speed with which they can be read.

Gretchen Rubin, author of The Happiness Project, recently started her third YA book club. She explains, “At first I thought I was the only one reading YA Lit in New York, but I found it wasn’t true. There are so many super cool people who share this passion. There’s so much fantastic stuff being written. Now it’s a strong part of the book market.”

YA Reading List to Get Started:

Hunger Games Trilogy by Suzanne Collins

The Book Thief by Markus Zusak

Sabriel (Abhorsen Trilogy) by Garth Nix

Stargirl by Jerry Spinelli

Beauty by Robin McKinley

Ender’s Game (Ender’s Saga #1) by Orson Scott Card

Peter and the Starcatchers series by Dave Barry and Ridley Pearson

Freefall by Mindi Scott

Stolen by Lucy Christopher

Catalyst by Laurie Halse Anderson

Researchers at the University of Sussex confirm that reading a novel calmed individuals faster than other stress-relief activities such as taking a walk or drinking a cup of tea. Lead researcher Dr. David Lewis stated, “It really doesn’t matter what book you read, by losing yourself in a thoroughly engrossing book you can escape from the worries and stresses of the everyday world and spend a while exploring the domain of the author’s imagination.” What’s more, according to environmental psychologists Rachel and Stephan Kaplan, when we read, we’re restoring our depleted, finite attention just like we do during sleep.

Melissa Montovani of YABookShelf.com adds that “YA novels give adults the chance to revel in the optimism and idealism of youth, and in the ability to live meaningful lives. They present readers with a definable hero, which is something that many literary novels forego. With our busy and stressful lives, it’s nice to be able to just escape into the plot of a novel that really grabs your attention.”

And who doesn’t love that YA is quick, easy, and fun to read? “Reading YA is brain candy,” admits Kate Burke, Associate Director of Publicity for Perseus Books. “For many women I know, the simple and dishy stories of YA are just what they need when they’re up in the middle of the night with a sick child or taking a break after a long day at work.”

Holly Cupala, YA author of Tell Me a Secret and readergirlz.com blogger, adds, “Between being a writer and mom, reading time is at a premium for me. I love taking a moment to read a page or two of the latest Sara Zarr novel or A Blue So Dark by Holly Schindler. Sometimes reading about characters surmounting obstacles helped me see life in a new way.”

“People forget it’s supposed to be fun,” says Gretchen Rubin. “They let themselves watch reality TV but expect to read something about the Middle East. Let yourself read something fun!”

Plus, a book gives you stress relief that won’t cost you $125 an hour. Dom Testa, author of the YA sci-fi Galahad series, agrees. “My YA novels are often cathartic. More than once I’ve written dialogue where a character vented some frustration that was bottled up inside me. It’s cheap therapy.”

And right now, when I can’t believe my oldest daughter needs a $900 sensory integration test, therapy’s just what I need. But I’m not going to call my therapist, and I’m not going to scream; I’m going to read a good YA book. Because whether I pick Sarah Ockler’s Fixing Delilah or Becca Fitzpatrick’s Crescendo, either one will work. And soon I’ll be able to breathe.

Comments

31 Responses to “Percy Jackson Is My Therapist: How YA fiction relieves mom’s stress”

  1. Awesome article! Are you in Co, because I recognize 3 of the authors as local. :)

  2. I could not agree more with this article. I recently got back into Y.A. and 3 series in the last 3 months later I feel so much better and more relaxed. It’s a heck of a lot cheaper than therapy…

  3. Yes, Teri – I’m a Coloradoan! I love my Colorado YA authors. :) Are you?

  4. Lately, I’ve been using fiction to relax too! I haven’t gotten into YA fiction yet, but I certainly will to give it a try!

  5. What a wonderful piece Melissa. And thank you for sharing such a personal story. People laugh when I tell them I’m not planning to ever go back to reading “adult” books … They don’t know what they’re missing.

  6. Wow – I’m really impressed with how you incorporated my words and those of other people into your article. It all comes together so well. I haven’t read all of the YA books you suggested, but some are already on my to-be-read list and I might just have to add some (if not all) of the other suggestions.

    @Terry Doherty People really don’t know what they’re missing with YA books!

  7. Great writing, once again, and helping us all accept it is ok to feel the need to escape our lives. Sharing a reading experience is also a great way to connect with our YA child at a stage we need to find a communication path.

  8. @Running Yogini – yes, I agree with you that YA books can be a good communication path for you and your children. Might help you to understand what they’re feeling, espeically if they’re going through something that is different from your experience as a teen. Even if it’s just to have something that you can both discuss, it’s a good thing I think.

  9. Add YA author Carrie Jones (the Need series, Tips on Having a Gay (Ex) Boyfriend, Love and Other Uses for Duct Tape)to your reading list. Not only is she an amazing bestselling author, she understands much about epilepsy.

  10. Don’t stop at YA–if you go deeper into the children’s section there’s even more great stuff. Some novels for that 10-12 range are astonishingly beautiful with rich characters and stunning resolutions…and you can read them in a couple of hours. Plus those larger fonts are easy on the eyes. I’d recomend Susan Patron’s Lucky series or anything by Frances O’Roark Dowell.

  11. Melissa, I’m so glad you found something to relieve some stress at what must be a very trying time. As a mom of 3, my heart goes out to you and your daughters. Hope 2011 brings you great things! The last time I really got into a book was when I picked up the Hunger Games. I wanted to see if my 11 year old should read it. I hardly stopped reading until I got through all 3 books in the series! How wonderful it was to escape into that land of fantasy and young love. I felt a bit guilty of reading such ‘childish’ material but no more, now that I can see I am not alone! Think I might pick up the newest Rick Riordan, next…

  12. It’s so tough watching your child go through any kind of trauma, isn’t it? I’m a grandmother now, but I can remember how panicked I could get. I wish you and your family peace and comfort as you travel this path.

    As for the YA books, I’m reading them too. I got hooked when I started buying for my grand-niece and felt I should read the book first to make sure it was appropriate. Now I regularly buy YA novels and peruse the Teen shelves at the library for more ideas. One of our local Northern Colorado writers, Amy Kathleen Ryan, has a couple of books out, and also Denise Vega. So there’s a couple more names to try. I read Becca’s Hush! Hush! but haven’t read Crescendo yet.

  13. Couldn’t agree more. I lost a few days and much stress to The Hunger Games this summer :) Such a perfect escape!

  14. What a wonderful article, Melissa! And I couldn’t agree more–stories sustain us. There are so many wonderful books in the children’s and YA sections of the library. Best wishes to your whole family.

  15. Reading helps me through hard times, too. It takes me away to a far off world, where I can either relate or escape. I can’t wait to read some of the YA books that you suggest.

  16. They’re just better writing in a lot of cases. I heart Percy and company myself. Tired beyond words of angsty spoiled adults and true crime.

  17. Totally agree. Reading YA books with my older daughter, I often sneak a chapter or two in advance and end up reading the entire book that night. YA fiction can vary in terms of writing quality, but the common hope it captures is something adult fiction, pre-occupied with the “real” world, often loses. And I’d rather share in a world of hope with my kids than not.

  18. Thank you all so much for your well wishes! Like many of you, I devoured The Hunger Games. @Michelle, I think you’ll like the newest Riordan book – it’s a great twist on the Percy series. @k annie, totally agree that the middle fiction books are rich. Have you read Mockingbird yet? Totally blew my mind.

  19. If you like the Hunger Games series, you’ll like “Matched” by Ally Condie. It is the first book in a new series, and it is a great read.

  20. I’m not alone! After our daughter was born my husband was confused by the change (read: intellectual decline) in my taste in literature. I had to try and explain to him “My brain can’t handle Kierkegaard right now… Harry Potter is something it can.” I needed to escape into books that would let my mind be free, not make it think even more. I thought I was the only one… now I know I’m not. Thank you.

  21. Glad to hear your with us, Jenna! Anyone on Goodreads? Let’s compare books. http://www.goodreads.com/friend/i?i=LTM2MDcwNDUyODQ6MjY3

  22. Im so sorry about your DDs epilepsy diagnosis. That must have been such a scary time for your family. Now $900 for therapy! Motherhood is so not for the weak :)

    I just started reading YA again in 2008 (thanks Stephenie Meyer!). I had no idea how awesome the genre had become. Now 75% of what I read is YA. I love the innocent and resilient nature of the characters. It is a refreshing break from the jaded characters that make up so much adult fiction. It *almost* makes me miss being a teen ;)

  23. Such a fantastic article Melissa! Fabulous job!

    It’s so true that these books can be huge releases in our sometimes extremely hectic & stressful lives. Your story is so amazing, I can’t even imagine going through all that, but it’s so nice to know we all have this escape. Who cares what the rest of them all say? As long as it works, it’s not hurting anyone and helping us. Perfect! Excellent article again!

  24. So much love, thanks @the1stdaughter and @christie. Big hugs to you! Agreed, Twilight got a lot of people checking out YA. I started reading YA because as a teacher, I wanted to read what my students were reading. Then I was hooked.

  25. So true! I used to think, as a busy mom, that I had no time to read. Then I got caught up with the Twilight series, Hunger Games, etc and not only was it an escape, but almost an epiphany that I could *make time* for whatever I needed to in life. You should also check out “Maze Runner.”

  26. Loved your article, and I totally agree. Explains why I’m such a Harry Potter geek! (You’re an HP fan too, aren’t you?) I haven’t read any of those other books you mentioned.

    One of my favorite young adult books is Z for Zachariah by Robert C. O’Brien. Published in 1975. Do you know it? I have given it as a gift to many of my adult friends who are readers, and they’ve loved it.

    A few months ago I read Wintergirls by Laurie Halse Anderson. LOVED it. I told my sister to pick it for her book club. (Same author as Speak, do you know that one? I liked Wintergirls better.)

    I haven’t gotten into the Twilight series but I appear to be the only grownup who hasn’t!

  27. I am saved, always, by books. They are medicinal. Great story.

  28. @Shannon, yes I did like Maze Runner, also Ship Breaker and Wintergirls (disturbing). And, love, love, love H.P. Of course! Thanks, @Beth.

  29. I’ve always used books to escape. My husband says that books are like my crack. I’m so glad to see that the Twilight series didnt make it to anyone’s YA book list. BLECH! Sometimes I go even younger than YA and reread the Beverly Cleary and Judy Blume books. So relaxing!

  30. You’re right about YA books. In a world where adult novels and television seem more violent and dysfunctional by the day, what a relief to escape to a world where idealistic teens conquer evil.
    Other escapes/therapy for me include classic mystery and science fiction/fantasy (Ngaio
    Marsh, Josephine Tey, Margery Allingham/Fritz Leiber, Saberhagen, Robert Silverberg). But there are
    some contemporary writers bordering the YA who deliver wonderful stories like Guy Gavriel Kay.

  31. I started reading YA books when my daughter and I joined the mother-daughter bookclub of our local library. We BOTH love the books. They are fast and immediately engaging.