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Michael Jackson's Kids Get Better Than He Got

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jackson-kidsSay what you will about Michael Jackson: the King of Pop was giving his kids better than he got.

So they had to wear masks in public? So they are of indeterminate origin? They got the chance at a childhood their papa never had.

Psychiatrists have long posited Jackson was stuck in childhood, what with his self-created Neverland penchant for surrounding himself with children (whether or not the allegations of molestation were true). Even the timber of his voice in later years was more childlike than those of most grown men.

If he was a child molester, no doubt, we can’t excuse him. But we may be able to explain some of his weirdness: his father was known to be overbearing and a believer of spare the rod, spoil the child. Jackson was out in the limelight performing with the Jackson 5 when most kids are learning to tie their shoes and

In an essay by Jackson republished this week after his death, the King of Pop related how rough he had it growing up in the center of the world: “When I look back on my childhood, it is not an idyllic landscape of memories. My relationship with my father was strained, and my childhood was an emotionally difficult time for me. I began performing when I was five years old, and my father – a tough man – pushed my brothers and me hard, from the earliest age, to be the best performers we could be.”

When he grew up – physically at least – and had his kids, Jackson did one thing right. Since the infamous dangling baby incident with youngest son Prince Michael “Blanket” Jackson II, the kids have been kept largely out of the spotlight. Maybe because they were in Bahrain, but still, he’s allowed them as normal a childhood as you can get when your dad is the butt of late night jokes and his voice is on the iPod of every seventies and eighties child in America.

The sight of the elder two kids, those borne Jackson by ex-wife Debbie Rowe, was rare enough that it made mega headlines a few weeks ago as Prince Michael I, twelve, and Paris Michael, eleven, were unmasked in public. Other news is equally boring – Paris had a circus party for her birthday (sounds refreshingly normal – although the stilt walkers were a bit over the top).

In other words? The kids have largely avoided the public scrutiny their father has been subjected to from the get-go, from an age even younger than his youngest child is now. Those days are partially over – if nothing else, the custody battle brewing will put giant targets on their backs for weeks and even months to come.

But let’s hope whoever they land with realizes that there was one thing Michael Jackson knew his kids needed – to be protected, something his own parents failed to do.

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Jeanne Sager is a freelance writer and photographer living in upstate New York with her husband and daughter, Jillian. She maintains a blog of her award-winning columns at jeannesager.blogspot.com.

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5 thoughts on “Michael Jackson's Kids Get Better Than He Got

  1. Ali says:

    Have you ever read this?

    http://www.vanityfair.com/fame/features/2005/07/orth200507

    Having porn lying around the house is not a great way to grow up. Many child molesters say they feel they are still children inside, that they feel more in touch emotionally with children than adults, that they missed out on their childhood. Everything he said, about sleeping with children (who are not yours and you are a grown man) is just expressing love, feeling like a child, missing his childhood, sounds like a classic pedophile. I do not feel sorry for him. I feel sorry for the many victims who had the courage to testify against him through their humiliation and pain and then saw their abuser skip away scott free.

  2. Poor Guy. says:

    I don’t know for sure whether or not MJ did abuse the children or anything (and if he did, that’s just awful) but I feel awful for him because the people of my time (90′s) only think of him as the guy-with-the-nose-and-the-sex-with-kids. They never seem to remember that he is a music icon, or a person.
    When he died, some people I know were sending around text messages saying “Since 99% of Michael Jackson was made of plastic, his remains will be melted down into legos so that children can play with him for a change.”
    He’s still a human, whether or not he was a child molester (coming from someone who was molested as a child. >:l )

  3. Knitty says:

    The only “victim” who testified against him was a con artist from a family of professional grifters. His “pain” was only that the jury saw through his lies and didn’t award him the millions he dreamed of scoring from a deeply troubled man. But I’m sure you know much more than the jury who sat thought months and months of testimony, Ali.

  4. Beatrice says:

    I don’t believe MJ ever molested any child. Those who hurt him were con artists/gold diggers.

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