What Happens When You Let a 6-Year-Old Buy Their Own Outfit?
I don’t like to think of myself as being too much of a control freak and/or a helicopter mom. But there are certain things I routinely “manage” in regards to my daughter’s actions. I always insist that she says “please” and “thank you.” I always make sure she eats her vegetables. And I always make her clothing purchase selections for her. Now, the selecting and buying is generally where my two cents stop. I allow her to assemble the outfits and to pick what she wants to wear on any given day, but the actual decision making of what items end up in her closet had been left up to me…until now.
She’s at the age now that she can make her own fashion choices, and to do so wisely. And finally, this picky mommy (me) decided to let her select an outfit – from head to toe – from Target’s kids’ section. We had a Saturday afternoon, I had just had a big cup of coffee, and we were ready to go. Oh, and I set a timer. But as it turns out, this mother/daughter social experiment was harder than I thought. The reason?
She had so many different choices of styles and “oh my god, I want this so bad,” moments that it was hard to trim it down the options to just one outfit. I did give her some parameters when we started. She could pick out one outfit that included hair accessories to clothing to shoes but PJs and/or a tutu could not be included. It had to be an ensemble that she would wear proudly and out and about on our city streets.
We piled our cart with items from the Circo line to Disney Artists to Cherokee to D-Signed to Harajuku Mini. There were things that were my favorites and things that were hers. Things that were so popular that they had run out of her size, to things that looked adorable on the rack but just didn’t fit her regular everyday style. After the on again, off action action of the dressing room, she finally settled on one outfit. A shirt, skirt, shoe and glittered glove ensemble that she was proud of, and seemed to speak to her inner pop star. And how long did it take her to finally edit down her choices to one “perfect” outfit? One hour and seventeen minutes.
You can check out what she selected below:
She selected the:
D -Signed Girls’ Party Skirt $16.99 here
D -Signed Girls’ Peplum Top $14.90 here
Xhilaration® Girls’ Fingerless Gloves $7.99 here.
Girl’s Cherokee® Genice Flat – $17.99 here.
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We love Target for clothes! I am just this year letting my 8 year old daughter and 7 year old daughter pick out their clothes, I am super picky too (although, I will have total veto power on all clothing)! I’ll still be picking for my 2 year old son, if left up to him, he’d just run around in his Elmo underwear…
I was just at Target yesterday and got a sweater my 3 yr old can wear during the holidays. I feel like boys are probably easier than girls, a nice sweater and hes set.
I adore Target. Unfortunately, the closest one to me is about half an hour away. It makes me sad. Love love love the Circo line of clothes, though. They’re some of my favorites.
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Target is a go-to for us. The prices are great, and I love the extra 5% off with a Red Card. And of course the kids have to have a pretzel from the snack bar when we wrap a successful trip.
Great blog Stroller Derby/Babble. We love Target’s selection of clothing for our two princesses! I was just at a local Target the other day and came across the cutest reindeer Christmas pj’s. Of course, I (mommy) found holiday dresses/outfits for the whole family at an exceptional price…which makes daddy very happy!
Happy Holidays