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What's Eating At You? The Guilty Parent. (VIDEO)

By daniellesmith |

I have been thinking about my role as a parent a lot lately. More specifically, I’ve been thinking a lot about the feelings of guilt associated with being a parent.  I often joke that guilt decended on me like a warm blanket the very moment the plus sign appeared on that positve pregnancy test.

Would I be a good mom?

What if they wouldn’t eat vegetables? (And then??  How bad is it when they DON’T eat them??)

When my daughter came home the other day with hurt feelings, did my words help her to heal?

How bad is it when I let them watch too much TV? Or stay up too late?

The irony is that years ago, I started a website specifically designed to combat these ‘guilty’ feelings and instead embrace the EXTRAORDINARY jobs that parents do loving their children each day.

A recent, incredibly painful loss and some deep thinking has brought me full circle on this way of thinking again.  It is important to me to embrace the extraordinary, rembember I am truly enough and let go of the guilt.

 

What are the greatest sources of your ‘parenting guilt’ and what do you do to combat these feelings?

Read more from Danielle on Strollerderby and her personal sites ExtraordinaryMommy and DanielleSmithMedia.

You can also follow her on Twitter.

More from Danielle on Strollerderby:

Pinterest Is Making Money From Your Posts: Sneaky Or Genius?
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McDonalds Outsmarts San Francisco Happy Meal Ban
Sticks and Stones: My Son Cut His Hair So Another Child Would Stop Calling Him A Girl

 

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A decorated public speaker and a masterful listener, Danielle Smith can engage and entertain both online and live audiences alike. She is the founder of Extraordinary Mommy, the author of Mom, Incorporated: A Guide to Business + Baby , and a lover of all things video. Read bio and latest posts → Read daniellesmith's latest posts →

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